Blended Orgasms – What, How and Why?

Written by Donna Turner

It’s no secret that when you mix two brilliant things, the result is often more than the sum of its parts. This is absolutely true of orgasms: a clitoral orgasm is brilliant; a G-spot orgasm is incredible. But combine the two and you have a recipe for a mind-blowing mixture of complex sensations.

What Is a Blended Orgasm?

While ‘blended orgasm’ might sound like some kind of orgasm smoothie (and I’ll be first in line when someone invents those), it is in fact a broad name for an orgasm that’s brought on by orgasmically stimulating more than one erogenous zone at the same time.

For example, people generally agree that there are two primary types of orgasm for women: the clitoral orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. There are of course many other more subtle and personal types of orgasm (and since everyone is a little different, you could reasonably argue that there are at least as many types of orgasm as there are women on the planet), but let’s not overcomplicate things for now.

The point is that a blended orgasm, which is a combination of clitoral and G-spot pleasure, is at least twice as intense as either of those orgasms by themselves.

How Do I Have a Blended Orgasm?

A blended orgasm is a more “advanced” kind of climax, because it requires you knowing your body (or your partner knowing your body) quite well.

It’s a strange thing to consider that even now, with all our medical and scientific expertise, there is still debate and confusion over female anatomy. Many women, for example, are unaware that their clitoris is not simply that little external bundle of nerves we know and love so much, but in fact has “legs” that extend around the vaginal opening and then inside the vagina (in fact, there was a paper published recently that argued that the clitoris and the G-spot are not distinct organs, but part of the same complex of tissue – in short, that the G-spot was the “back” of the clitoris).

At any rate, the point is that when you start paying attention to the entire clitoris rather than just the external part, while stimulating your G-spot at the same time, the result is likely to be a far more intense orgasm than you might be used to.

What Do I Need For A Blended Orgasm?

You don’t really need anything: if you have patience and some time, then your hands or those of your partner will provide good results.

That said, the most efficient way to reach a blended orgasm is by using toys. The more aroused you are, the better and easier it will be, so make sure you take lots of time building up, spoiling yourself, teasing yourself.

Then, when you start to feel yourself getting close, apply a powerful vibe to your clitoris 

NALONE CURVE and another, 

longer vibe to your G-spot LELO GIGI 2

Use lots of personal moisturizer too.

Find a rhythm, alternating between the pressure you’re applying to your clit and your G-spot, experimenting with slightly different angles and intensities. Try to apply the vibrations all over and around your clitoris, tracing its length inside yourself. Continue to tease and prolong the pleasure – the longer you delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be.

When the blended orgasm finally overwhelms you, you’ll notice the muscles contract all the way along the inside of your vagina; it’s this depth that gives the blended orgasm its intensity.

To Sum Up

Practice makes perfect, so the more you experiment and indulge your body with blended orgasms, the easier and more powerful they’ll become. Exercising your Kegels will also help to strengthen the muscles you use in this kind of orgasm, which in turn will intensify the sensations even more.

So good luck, and most importantly, have fun.

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LELO Wins Top Prize at 2014 A’ Design Awards

Great news! Our  personal massager ORA™ has won the Platinum Trophy at the A’ Design Awards, the highest honor given at the awards, held this year on April 12^th in Como, Italy.

ORA™, our latest product, is designed to closely simulate the unique sensations of oral sex for women. This latest victory marks our third time being honored by an authoritative body in high design after we won the Red Dot Design award in 2012 and 2013.

Other winners included Nike, Vodafone and Speedo, and were chosen by a panel of academic and professional experts on product design based on innovation, usability, presentation and ergonomics. Needless to say, ORA™ was a shoe-in from the word ‘go’.

We’re delighted with the result, especially since we only launched ORA™ in January. It immediately captured interest by offering the most realistic sensations akin to receiving oral sex, while the first promotional video for the product gained over four hundred thousand views in less than three weeks.

Lelo CEO Miroslav Slavic said; ‘Many thanks to A’ Design and all of the judges for bestowing such a great honor on our ORA™ personal massager. It is awards like this and all of the overwhelmingly positive feedback we’ve received from customers that further confirm just how amazing ORA™ is, and how totally unique it is from every pleasure product on the market today.’

We’d like to thank everyone involved, and we’d especially like to thank our loyal customers for supporting us and spreading the word about ORA™ and the pleasure it can offer.

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Mastering the Art of Skype Sex

Technology; some claim that it drives us apart and alienates us from each other. But if you’re one of the millions who are currently in a long-distance relationship, technology is all you have to bridge the gap between you and your lover. Lucky for these people, VoP software like Skype exists, and allows you to go the distance in spite of the distance.

And while getting sensual over Skype can feel a little intimidating or unnatural at first, remind yourself that every experimental pursuit takes some getting used to. Keeping this in mind, here are LELO’s top 5 Skype sex secrets:

Out with the Insecurity 
The biggest mistake people make while having Skype sex is dampening the mood by letting their insecurity or inexperience show by saying things like, I don’t know what to do or I’m feeling shy. There’s nothing quite as unsexy as a lack of confidence. If you’re feeling bashful or can’t think of anything sexy to say, here’s a hint: say nothing at all, and let your body do the talking.

Play by the Rules

Skype sex is just that—sex. That means that an arousing buildup of foreplay is just as important as it is during physical intercourse. Of course you need to adjust your tantalizing techniques accordingly (more on that later), but don’t make the experience seem unnatural or chore-like by saying things like Should we start now?  Enjoy a glass of wine together, ask about one another’s day, and fan the flames of desire with a simple physical compliment.

Keep it Real

While no substitute for the real thing, you might surprise yourself with how intense a session of Skype sex could be with a little creativity. Introduce a vibrator to your cyber session and supply him with an arousing visual while you experience some more-than-arousing sensations. Be sure to also use your vibrator to experiment with point-of-view positions and angles and communicate with one another to establish a mutual rhythm and pace.   

Know Your Role

Since Skype sex stimulates your imagination, why not take advantage of the opportunity to further explore some role-playing fantasies and fetishes? Before initiating a Skype call you intend to turn frisky, slip on a sexy role play outfit (e.g.—maid or nurse) your man has previously revealed fantasizing about underneath your pajamas or normal daywear. When the timing’s right, slowly reveal your outfit and apologize you can’t be there to pick his jaw up off the floor.

Redefine ‘Homecoming’

Since it’s inevitable that you’ll see one another again, plant a seed of sensual anticipation in his mind that will sprout until your eventual reunion. During Skype sex foreplay, let him know that there’s something else also longing for his arrival. Surprise him by visually introducing him to a remote-controlled couples’ bullet vibrator. Able to be used at a distance of over 100 feet, couples’ bullet vibrators offer an enticing alternative to ‘long-distance’ love-making that leaves nothing to the imagination.

While you may be unable to make a physical connection while your partner is away, Skype has shown us that an internet connection provides a kinkier-than-expected alternative to sex while awaiting the return to a lover’s arms.

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Hot Tips for Cooler Summer Sex

When the mercury rises at the height of the hottest season, it’s fair to say that sometimes summer lovin’ can get put on the back burner. But don’t let the weather send your love life up in flames, check out LELO’s five best ways to keep cool during steamy summer sex.

Set the scene

Arousing fragrances, scented candles, rose petals, mood lighting, all these things are great for getting each other going, but, as dull as it sounds, if you screw up the ambient air temperature you can say au revoir to your sexy soirée.

We’re not saying crank the AC up to arctic levels – unless of course Eskimo kisses are your – but a well-prepared and comfortable environment will chill you both out for some welcome relief.

Fire and ice

The contrast between hot and cold is one of the body’s deepest sensations, so a mouth full of ice cream, frozen yogurt or chilled wine or champagne provides the ideal cold shock to all your partner’s hottest places. Thank us later!

Meet your shower

After having so much fun playing with your food in the bedroom, there’s no better way to get cleaned up than by enjoying an intimate shower together.

Again set the temperature just right, and why not consider adding a waterproof massager into the equation? You’ll both be well on your way to the dirtiest kind of clean in no time.

The lowdown

While getting down may be a well-known euphemism, when it comes to hot weather sex it’s also a great, if somewhat unintentional, piece of advice; warm air rises, so the lower you go, the cooler you’ll be.

If you’re lucky enough to have a basement, go there in spring, chuck out all the useless junk you should have got rid of a long time ago, and set up a sexy summer hideaway. It’s just your little secret, and you don’t even need to leave the house.

Get over it

If all else fails, you know what, just embrace the sweat, use it, slip and slide in, around and all over each other like a pair of slippery things in a slidey place. It’s not gross, it’s not weird, it’s awesome, and what’s more important, you’re both in it together!

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Get the Complete Bikini Body; The Benefits of Healthy Kegels

MERRY XMAS FROM THE LOVE AND INDULGENCE TEAM!

We hope you all had a magnificent day whether your with friends, family or spoiling yourself. We hope this next article gets you in the mood to feel the summer sexiness we all need.

Bigger, better orgasms—who wouldn’t appreciate that? Women everywhere are finding that Kegel toning yields a huge payoff: more frequent, intense and prolonged orgasms. Stronger Kegel muscles give women more control and sensitivity during sexual activity, and even their male partners can feel the results! 

Pregnant women are particularly advised to exercise them in order to maintain elasticity and strength well after their newborns arrive. And since Kegels—like any muscle—gradually become weaker with age, mature women are also turning to Kegel toning to dramatically reduce the chances of incontinence in later years, and to prevent pelvic organ prolapse.

So now that we know how important these muscles can be, what’s the best way to keep them healthy? Given their lack of visibility, some women simply forget to exercise them, especially as the distractions of a busy lifestyle add up. And, it can be difficult for a woman to gauge the strength of her Kegels, or to even locate the proper set of muscles.

Women around the world have discovered the ultimate solution in LELO’s LUNA Beads. Our body-safe resistance exercisers can be worn for Kegel strength training—and unlike hitting the gym, LUNA Beads can be used anytime, anywhere.

Use these exercisers while in the shower, on your commute to work, or even while running errands on the weekends—LELO LUNA Beads are effective no matter what you may be up to, and no one around you will have a clue. So when summer finally comes around and it’s time to hit the beach, you’ll have that perfect accessory to wear with that smashing bikini. 

If you want to take it up a notch try out the Nalone Miu Miu vibrating kegel's. Gives shopping with rhythm a whole new meaning!

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