Blended Orgasms – What, How and Why?

Written by Donna Turner

It’s no secret that when you mix two brilliant things, the result is often more than the sum of its parts. This is absolutely true of orgasms: a clitoral orgasm is brilliant; a G-spot orgasm is incredible. But combine the two and you have a recipe for a mind-blowing mixture of complex sensations.

What Is a Blended Orgasm?

While ‘blended orgasm’ might sound like some kind of orgasm smoothie (and I’ll be first in line when someone invents those), it is in fact a broad name for an orgasm that’s brought on by orgasmically stimulating more than one erogenous zone at the same time.

For example, people generally agree that there are two primary types of orgasm for women: the clitoral orgasm and the G-spot orgasm. There are of course many other more subtle and personal types of orgasm (and since everyone is a little different, you could reasonably argue that there are at least as many types of orgasm as there are women on the planet), but let’s not overcomplicate things for now.

The point is that a blended orgasm, which is a combination of clitoral and G-spot pleasure, is at least twice as intense as either of those orgasms by themselves.

How Do I Have a Blended Orgasm?

A blended orgasm is a more “advanced” kind of climax, because it requires you knowing your body (or your partner knowing your body) quite well.

It’s a strange thing to consider that even now, with all our medical and scientific expertise, there is still debate and confusion over female anatomy. Many women, for example, are unaware that their clitoris is not simply that little external bundle of nerves we know and love so much, but in fact has “legs” that extend around the vaginal opening and then inside the vagina (in fact, there was a paper published recently that argued that the clitoris and the G-spot are not distinct organs, but part of the same complex of tissue – in short, that the G-spot was the “back” of the clitoris).

At any rate, the point is that when you start paying attention to the entire clitoris rather than just the external part, while stimulating your G-spot at the same time, the result is likely to be a far more intense orgasm than you might be used to.

What Do I Need For A Blended Orgasm?

You don’t really need anything: if you have patience and some time, then your hands or those of your partner will provide good results.

That said, the most efficient way to reach a blended orgasm is by using toys. The more aroused you are, the better and easier it will be, so make sure you take lots of time building up, spoiling yourself, teasing yourself.

Then, when you start to feel yourself getting close, apply a powerful vibe to your clitoris 

NALONE CURVE and another, 

longer vibe to your G-spot LELO GIGI 2

Use lots of personal moisturizer too.

Find a rhythm, alternating between the pressure you’re applying to your clit and your G-spot, experimenting with slightly different angles and intensities. Try to apply the vibrations all over and around your clitoris, tracing its length inside yourself. Continue to tease and prolong the pleasure – the longer you delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be.

When the blended orgasm finally overwhelms you, you’ll notice the muscles contract all the way along the inside of your vagina; it’s this depth that gives the blended orgasm its intensity.

To Sum Up

Practice makes perfect, so the more you experiment and indulge your body with blended orgasms, the easier and more powerful they’ll become. Exercising your Kegels will also help to strengthen the muscles you use in this kind of orgasm, which in turn will intensify the sensations even more.

So good luck, and most importantly, have fun.

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Get the Complete Bikini Body; The Benefits of Healthy Kegels

MERRY XMAS FROM THE LOVE AND INDULGENCE TEAM!

We hope you all had a magnificent day whether your with friends, family or spoiling yourself. We hope this next article gets you in the mood to feel the summer sexiness we all need.

Bigger, better orgasms—who wouldn’t appreciate that? Women everywhere are finding that Kegel toning yields a huge payoff: more frequent, intense and prolonged orgasms. Stronger Kegel muscles give women more control and sensitivity during sexual activity, and even their male partners can feel the results! 

Pregnant women are particularly advised to exercise them in order to maintain elasticity and strength well after their newborns arrive. And since Kegels—like any muscle—gradually become weaker with age, mature women are also turning to Kegel toning to dramatically reduce the chances of incontinence in later years, and to prevent pelvic organ prolapse.

So now that we know how important these muscles can be, what’s the best way to keep them healthy? Given their lack of visibility, some women simply forget to exercise them, especially as the distractions of a busy lifestyle add up. And, it can be difficult for a woman to gauge the strength of her Kegels, or to even locate the proper set of muscles.

Women around the world have discovered the ultimate solution in LELO’s LUNA Beads. Our body-safe resistance exercisers can be worn for Kegel strength training—and unlike hitting the gym, LUNA Beads can be used anytime, anywhere.

Use these exercisers while in the shower, on your commute to work, or even while running errands on the weekends—LELO LUNA Beads are effective no matter what you may be up to, and no one around you will have a clue. So when summer finally comes around and it’s time to hit the beach, you’ll have that perfect accessory to wear with that smashing bikini. 

If you want to take it up a notch try out the Nalone Miu Miu vibrating kegel's. Gives shopping with rhythm a whole new meaning!

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When You Want It More Then He Does

Hey readers, 

Found this great article and wanted to share with you all.

On a personal note, I have been in this position a few times. I found that my age increased my libido and their work, stress, mind or depression decreased theirs. I believe this is a common problem with many of us so please take in the wise words below to better understand.

I remember too well discovering the utter pleasure of having sex with one particular partner (who will remain unnamed). The first few times weren't great, but once I felt comfortable and confident, there was no stopping me. I couldn't get enough.

But whereas I was getting more and more excited about all the sexy things he could do to me and I could do to him — I felt like a hormonal teenager because all I could think about was having sex with him — it soon became clear that he didn't want it as much as I did.

Being sexually rejected on an almost daily basis was hard to take.

Not only did he make me feel unattractive, but he also made me feel like I was a nymphomaniac. That relationship only lasted for eleven months in total. In hindsight, I wish I had known how to better deal with my feelings of rejection.

The sexual stereotype that men have stronger libidos has left women such as myself feeling rejected and hurt, not to mention sexually frustrated.

But gender researcher Professor Hugo Schwyzer points out it's important to distinguish feelings of rejection from feelings of sexual frustration.

"While it's undeniably upsetting to be the one who 'wants it more', how much of the upset is tied to feeling 'like a freak' because women aren't supposed to have the higher libido?".

"Rejection never feels good, just as having to reject isn't much fun either. But clearly, to be a young woman with a consistently higher sexual desire than one's male partner is always going to be especially painful because of the way in which it contradicts all of our cultural programming. The one comfort that folks in my position can offer — and I do offer it repeatedly — is to remind those who are confused and hurting that this is not nearly as unusual as they think." In fact, it was recently proven that women's sexual desire is just as strong and ravenous as men's — proving once and for all that the belief that men want more sex than women is just a myth, and that our expectations of how women are in bed have been shaped by cultural beliefs.

So what can you do if you want it more than he does? Is having mismatched libidos a deal breaker in a relationship?

If you truly love your partner, but fear your mismatched libidos are a problem, here are a few questions you should ask yourself:

•Why don't you masturbate? Having your own sex life can not only improve your general health and well-being, but also the state of your relationship. Think sexy thoughts about your partner while self-pleasuring if it helps making you feel closer to your partner. For beginners, we recommend using a toy like Nalone Roma — it's sleek, discrete and will pinpoint all of the vibrations to your clitoris, giving you sensational C-spot orgasms. Can be used on your own or even later with a partner. If you're looking for something even more earth shattering, you might like to try The Kissing Swan by Swan for dual C-spot and G-spot stimulation.

•Do you really want sex? Or is it intimacy, affection and maybe just confirmation that he desires you that you're really after? Learn to differentiate between sex and affection. A cuddle on the coach or an intimate massage session can satisfy your immediate hunger if it's really intimacy you want.

However, if you are really concerned about your mismatched libidos, talking to a relationship or sex therapist could be a good idea.

For me? Well, I'm happy to announce that I'm in a sexually very satisfactory relationship today, and my man wants it just as much as I do. Which is a lot — but we both love it!

Enjoy yourself.

Miss M

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Maintaining Your Post-Menopause Sexuality

Hot flashes, mood swings and intermittent insomnia are symptoms of menopause that every woman is aware of, even if they aren’t at menopausal age yet. But what many aren’t familiar with is the ways menopause affects us that we’re perhaps less than comfortable discussing.

Facing Up to Menopause

You see, the decrease in your body’s estrogen and the weakening of your pelvic muscles that occurs during this time leads to some intimate issues like mild incontinence when you laugh, vaginal dryness that itches throughout the day, and awkward, uncomfortable moments during intercourse.

It all sounds quite depressing – but it doesn’t have to be.

The Importance of Intimate Exercise

A number of menopausal symptoms can be lessened with a bit of preparation with pelvic floor exercising. Pelvic floor exercises, or ‘Kegels’, are the solution that everyone’s talking about, and are recommended by doctors to help you;

Strengthen the muscles of your pelvic floor

Increase your sensations and enjoyment from intercourse

Help prevent and control incontinence


Kegel exercising is considered by many as being vital to intimate health, but many women have trouble following the correct exercise routine based on written instructions alone. This can often result in a lot of effort being spent on strengthening the incorrect muscles.

LUNA Beads™: A Simple – and Simply Effective – Solution 

Ben Wa balls – used primarily for pleasure for thousands of years, are now the widely-recommended solution for easier and more effective pelvic floor exercising. Ensuring that women can choose the best possible items for such an intimate purpose, LELO offers the LUNA Beads™ pelvic fitness solution, the trusted bestseller among Kegel weights since 2009.

The secret is to wear the weighted LUNA Beads™ during your daily routine to give you a static device to squeeze your muscles around, while the beads within LUNA cause movements to help you feel when your muscles respond.

LUNA Beads™ makes pelvic floor exercising safe, easy and efficient, with benefits that speak for themselves. 

If your looking for a variety of Kegel style balls check out this page covering the Fun Factory Toyfriend beginner weights, Lelo Luna beads 3 styles for those pre (mini) & post pregnancy and the experienced black beads with moving weights and the Nalone Miu Miu vibrating balls. There's something for everyone!

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