tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37668605667235359172024-03-12T18:06:39.260-07:00Love & Indulgence BlogLove and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.comBlogger108125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-24644213490894968482015-03-29T23:24:00.000-07:002015-03-29T23:24:27.450-07:00Why Husbands consider Cheating or up for the concept of a Mistress<br />
<b>Women stop having sex with them. Yes, the wives simply refuse to have sex!</b><br />
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I speak to men online all the time and I can tell the married ones and this is the no#1 complaint. It doest matter what the man does.</div>
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He tries to romance his wife, helps around the house, baths her in compliments and still...nothing, nada, a desert!</div>
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It's not uncommon that this happens after having children. Its like she's angry for now having exactly what she said she wanted...kids and his the one that pays the price of no sex to reproduce again till she's ready to do it all again. I say this as focus groups have shown that its not uncommon for the sex to go dry for a year till 18months on average!</div>
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For many woman they struggle with the new shape of their bodies. They don't think they are desirable or sexy anymore. WRONG! He wants you...he needs you...and most of all having sex is the most intimate act two people can do together. Simple intimacy is all he needs.</div>
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Quite frankly its unfair to remove the sex and expect him to stay faithful. </div>
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<b>Show some interest in his job and hobbies ladies.</b></div>
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After many conversations with escorts I have had my eyes completely opened on what happens with the hour that men have paid for. Many women look down at prostitution but ladies you have it all wrong. These woman should be thanked (I can hear you saying WTF right now but hang on a sec) as if it wasn't for them your marriage would actually be over!</div>
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Why do I say this, well I'll let you in on a little secret on the breakdown of this paid hour. The first 45 minutes is simply TALKING. Yes talking. He just wants to be heard.</div>
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The last 15 minutes is spent 80% of the time getting oral sex only.</div>
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In my workshops the biggest shock of the day is not touching a vibrator for the first time, its finding out the meaning of oral sex to men. Most women think its all about power. Wrong again! Don't get me wrong, at times this is the case but a blow job is just as personal for a guy as it is for a woman. It represents being needed and wanted.</div>
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Now ladies when you first met you had no issues in showing him this but why do you shy away from providing this form of intimacy in a long term relationship?</div>
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(Pssst now don;t forget in the past we have talked about how 85% of women need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. Him going down on you is perfect for this pleasure. If your not putting out how can you expect it in return. Fairs fair ladies).</div>
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So you got the man with the status and career, the house, the baby and the money. Tick tick tick</div>
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So you got what you wanted so no need to have sex anymore. WRONG! To keep this you need to keep the one thing that he, as a man needs, <b>INTIMACY which = SEX</b></div>
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-37772786642884334652015-03-29T23:20:00.001-07:002015-03-29T23:20:43.484-07:00Why we Cheat?<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-size: 21px;"><b>By Melina Macdonald</b></span></div>
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is a question that people in all honesty ask themselves in the silence of their
thoughts not out loud. Why? Because in actual fact the truth hurts.</b><o:p></o:p></div>
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It
doesn’t really matter whether you are asking why other people are doing it or
why you just did it; the fact is the truth is the most disturbing part of this
dilemma and what actually seems to be becoming a more common occurrence in today’s
busy society.<o:p></o:p></div>
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The
gender is also irrelevant in this topic as quite simply both parties are doing I
it as much as each other. Adult sites have been created just to help people do
this very thing…cheat.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Both
Victoria Milan and Ashley Madison websites, whose target market is married
people looking for affairs, have conducted their own surveys to keep in touch
with what their customer base wants and what their common traits are. The most
amazing statistic to come out of these is that people are having affairs with
people that they find to be less attractive then their spouses. Less! The
common belief that we tend to ‘upgrade’ to a younger hotter version is also not
entirely true with 30% of men and 50% of women having this as an important
factor. However what is common is the same thing I believe to be true, the
lovers seem to be better listeners and more passionate. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I
have written other articles in the past about this very topic…cheating, and
discussed the common occurrence that tends to happen in the brothels. The men
spend the first 45 minutes just talking. They simply just want to be heard. The
last 15 minutes is oral sex 80% of the time and more commonly these days is
that the men want to be the one giving it!<o:p></o:p></div>
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if passion and listening is the main reasons for people cheating then why can’t
this be solved at home?</b><o:p></o:p></div>
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So I
say lets look at the findings and pop a simple plan in place to alleviate the
stresses.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Take time
to listen.</b> Why not go for walks together and during this time both just
listen to other person talk with no interruptions and no judgement. Walking is
a great way to get fit and either shed those kilos’s to deal with that
aesthetic reason too.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Keep the
passion alive.</b> Why not surprise your partner by changing it up once in a
while. To do this you need to think about a few factors so go look at yourself
in the mirror. How do you hold yourself up? What are you wearing? Ditch the
sloppy Joes because trust me, your partners lover is not dressing like this!
Put effort into how you look and most importantly care about how you look. Note
to both sexes: Buy some sexy underwear. <o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Make time
for sex.</b> For those of you saying out loud right now “but I have kids”…shut
up! This has to be the single biggest excuse for basically ‘procrastinating’
from having sex again (you know who you are). Yes things have changed in your
home environment but we are not talking about a weekend shagging up session. We
are talking about a job that can take minutes to (I’m going to suggest) 30
minutes of your schedule. Make chores a joint effort so kids are in bed by 8pm
and off you go! Relationships are about making time, making things a priority
and nurturing the one factor that brought the two of you together which was
intimacy. It is the single most driving force within a relationship and if you
think it isn’t then your perception of relationships is severely warped. People
with no money, those that are severely overweight and those that have 10 kids
still find time to be intimate (the other common arguments on why people break
up or cheat). So if you want to keep your relationship healthy MAKE TIME now.<o:p></o:p></div>
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something new.</b> Relationships can get boring and monotonous. Starting a new
hobby, changing routine every now and again or even roles within a household
can stimulate change. This includes date nights and how you romance your
partner. It can be a hit and miss but as long as you’re trying its great. <o:p></o:p></div>
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to be more then just good friends.</b> Lust is a driving force in a long-term
successful relationship. Please note that when I say ‘successful’ I am not
meaning how many years you have been together, I am meaning that you are both
‘in love’ with each other not just ‘love’ each other. <o:p></o:p></div>
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of your comfort zone together occasionally.</b> Ditch the kids and go stay at a
hotel. Its doesn’t have to be a dirty weekend. Just the element of doing
something different is important enough.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-4435407024596442812015-03-29T23:10:00.000-07:002015-03-29T23:11:09.317-07:00The STI Blame Game<div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;">
By Melina Macdonald</div>
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<b>Did
you know that there is a higher chance of catching a sexually transmitted
disease (STI) via Oral Sex then through good old-fashioned normal penetration
sex? <o:p></o:p></b></div>
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If
you are saying NO, which is typically over 80% you, I suggest you invest the
next 7-minutes of your life getting a fast education about how to have safe
oral and penetration sex (even those of you in a monogamous relationship), how
to experience your fantasies of threesomes safely and understand that this
should not be a scary topic! Lets also discover WHY figures are showing an
annual increase in STI’s and that NONE OF US is out of harms way of catching
one.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Modern
technology has changed the face of our sexual relationships with some people
utilising online platforms like Tinder and Scout to find a quick hook-up, use
Ashley Madison to have an extra marital affair, or Redhotpie and Adult
Matchmaker to satisfy sexual curiosities or find that perfect playmate for a
night. The typical ‘monogamous’ or ‘no sex before marriage’ relationship has
evolved just like how our family trees have evolved over time. <o:p></o:p></div>
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So when
we look at all the different kinds of relationships we have today you would
think that safe sex with condom usage would have increased over time for
protection. Wrong! The Australian Bureau of Statistics reports show STI’s such
as Chlamydia, Gonorrhoea and HPV are annually on the steady increase.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Australian
condom manufacturer Big Richard stated that research showed 53% of 16-24 year
olds use protection and condom usage declines as people grow older. Now do
remember that condom usage should be for STI protection not necessarily for
pregnancy contraception. So lets look at why this is happening by discussing a simple
sexual scenario.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<o:p><br /></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Scenario<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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Man
meets woman. Woman gets her regular Pap smear and STI check-up and discovers
she has a STI. Woman decides to advise sexual partner/s and suggest they get an
STI test as to make sure they don’t pass this STI back and forth to each other.
<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Reactions options to STI conversation:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Obtain medication from doctor and move on.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Both start finger pointing accusing the other of
cheating.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Treat the other like they are ‘unclean’. <o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Relationship instantly goes bust.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Reality is:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">No-one
honestly knows</i> who did what or who had what or who spread it<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Finger
pointing</i> isn’t solving anything<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Treating or viewing someone as <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">‘dirty’ & ‘unclean’ </i>is ridiculous<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Most people have zero idea about STI’s as they
prefer to have their heads in the sand about this topic<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->There is too much <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">stigma</i> around STI’s so it is not openly discussed<o:p></o:p></div>
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Its
time to now have a frank conversation about why people just like you, yes you,
do NOT use protection like condoms or oral dams in all their sexual encounters:<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">People look at someone and assume that they
are:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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-<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>
Using protection or their other sexual partner’s are using protection<o:p></o:p></div>
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-<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>Honest
& upstanding<o:p></o:p></div>
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and
my favourite…<o:p></o:p></div>
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-<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;"> </span>‘Clean’
<o:p></o:p></div>
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or <o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->They are on the pill and believe this is enough
protection (The pill is not a protection from an STI only pregnancy)<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->There is just no conversation or permission
asking at all before he plays ‘bareback’ and just pokes it in!<o:p></o:p></div>
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Then
we have the WHY he doesn’t want to wear one<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">
‘bareback’ excuses</b>:<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">- I can’t wait</b>.
Your sooo sexy and turn me. Lets just do it.<o:p></o:p></div>
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- <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">I can’t cum</b>
with a condom on<o:p></o:p></div>
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- I <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">can’t feel
anything</b> with a condom on<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">- I’m allergic</b> to
latex (this one can be genuine but there are non-latex condoms on the market)<o:p></o:p></div>
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- <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">It will feel soo
much better</b> without one<o:p></o:p></div>
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- Don’t you <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">trust me</b>?<o:p></o:p></div>
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- I <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">don’t have any</b>
on me<o:p></o:p></div>
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-<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Ruins the<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> mood</b><o:p></o:p></div>
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- Aren’t you on the <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">pill</b>?<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">FACT about STI’s: <o:p></o:p></b></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Men are generally <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">carriers<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->There are commonly <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">NO symptoms. </b>In fact most people that have STI’s are completely unaware<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b><o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Some STI’s can <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">lay dormant</b><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> </i>for months
and years<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->People are<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">
uneducated</b> or naive about sexual education<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Some STI’s can cause <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">irreplaceable damage </b>such as chlamydia when undetected<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->They can be spread via sex toys that are not
cleaned properly<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Going from anal to vaginal sex spreads STI’s<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->You are not ‘unclean’ or ‘dirty’ because you
have had one<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->Over 80% of sexually active people will
experience one in their lifetime!<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]-->There is a higher chance of contracting a STI’s
via <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">oral sex. </b>STI’s can be<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;"> transmitted</i> even when using a condom if
you practice oral, anal or mouth to anal sex<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="margin-left: 18.0pt; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
<br /></div>
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<br /></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">There are 3 main STI risks in unprotected
Oral Sex:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">HPV </b>(herpes
simplex) 50-80% of adults have herpes virus 1 (also known as cold sores HSV-1)
with more then half of the new genital herpes are being contracted this way. It
is contracted through <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">skin-to-skin
contact</i> NOT via bodily fluids and oral HPV affects 1 in 15 Americans as per
studies done by The Center for Sexual Pleasure & Health (The CSPH). It is
the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">leading cause</i> of oral and throat
cancer more so then tobacco!<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Gonorrhoea
& Chlamydia</b> are the <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">most commonly</i>
transmitted via bodily fluids but are easily treated with antibiotics.<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">HIV</i> is
rare but can also be transmitted this way<o:p></o:p></div>
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</span></span></span><!--[endif]--><i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Hepatitis</i>
and other bacterial infections can also be transmitted during mouth to anal
play.<o:p></o:p></div>
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It
is important to understand that most of these STI’s do NOT show symptoms
(asymptomatic) or signs of the infection. Studies by CSPH showed that 82% of
adults and 70% of adolescents do not use protective tools during oral sex such
as condoms or oral dams. <o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
Whether
you are single or a couple all sexually active adults should be tested
annually. Unfortunately most people never ask to be tested for oral STI’s as
this is not part of the normal tests conducted. Even if you are using condom
protection however you have had multiple partners you should always be getting
regular STI check-ups every 3-6 months (depending on how frequently you have
sex).<o:p></o:p></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">How to protect yourself from oral STI’s:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
I
understand that the idea of giving your man a headjob with a condom or your
lady using an oral dam is weird or just plain yucky tasting but today there is
some great products on the market that you can use as a flavour over these.
They are not only safe to use (as it doesn’t break down the latex component of
the condom) but is vegan and not harmful to your body (many flavoured
lubricants unless organic are not recommended). </div>
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Check out the <a href="http://loveandindulgence.com.au/index.php?id_product=447&controller=product" target="_blank">NEW Lic-o-liciousOral Delight Cream manufactured by On by Sensuva </a></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Safety in a Threesome experience:<o:p></o:p></b></div>
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I want
to touch on this topic quickly before I finish as this is a highly sort out
sexual fantasy for many and they are not sure how to go about this safely. Recently
I had someone who was talking to me about wanting to experience a threesome and
hiring an escort was suggested to them. They couldn’t get their head around
having an intimate experience with a prostitute. I advised that it is a highly
advised option and that other then the escort making sure that this is a
positive experience for all involved (this scenario can go pear shaped real
fast), that if they are working as an escort or in a brothel they are a safer
option in regards to STI’s (as they have monthly check-ups) then picking up
some random in a bar.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;">Conclusion:</b></div>
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This
is YOUR vagina or YOUR penis and at NO time should you expect someone else to
be responsibility for your sexual health.<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
<div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;">
<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 14.0pt;">The ONLY
person responsible for your sexual health is YOU!<o:p></o:p></span></b></div>
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So
stand up, make a doctors appointment, pee in a jar and from now on remember YOU
are the only person who truly knows where your penis or vagina has been so
ALWAYS slap on a condom and get regular tests and…<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br /></div>
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Stop
pointing fingers and just grow up people!<o:p></o:p></div>
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<br />Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-30721114324443294432015-02-14T15:31:00.004-08:002015-02-14T15:31:58.031-08:00Controversial Hot Topic is Fifty Shades<br />
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Last year I went to a workshop on Masculine and Feminine energy. Up until that day I thought I had dealt with my marriage breakdown and thought I understood what had happened but geeze was I wrong. That day I learned about the energies, how they work and how they affect the dynamics within a relationship. For the first in my life I could clearly see my relationships from the perspective of masculine and feminine energy and boy oh boy was it an eye opener! I could finally understand and see my last entire 11 year relationship layed out in-front of me in a language that simplified what had previously had me scratching my head and blaming something else.</div>
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<span style="line-height: 1.38;">This same speaker went will a group of women to watch the movie Fifty Shades of Grey and after reading her review and perspective I just had to share it with all of you so enjoy the read and trust me, Naomi will leave you a little more enlightened and with a new perspective.</span></div>
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So - we went to see the movie Fifty Shades Of Grey last night.</div>
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There were around 150 people in our group, made up of around 70% women and we were all curious to experience one of the most highly anticipated films for some time.</div>
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Now given this film is expected to gross $60m in it's opening weekend (well placed with Valentines Day), and the author E.L. James has earned over $95m from the books & the movie rights already with over 100 million copies of the books sold worldwide this is clearly a topic that has aroused the interest of many.</div>
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Within our group of friends, there have been polarising opinions - some thought it was interesting entertainment, some thought it was horrendous & sick, some thought it was degrading & wanted to walk out mid way, others thought it was cool and it sparked their curiosity to explore more.</div>
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Whatever your opinion on the content and the film - I find it interesting to understand the attraction that has created this level of curiosity, and the hidden story behind the story. What is it that makes a man behave in the way that he does, and what is it that would make a beautiful young woman want to surrender to his desires?</div>
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So if we look at this from a Masculine & Feminine perspective - today's women have taken on a lot of masculine energy in order to create success in the workplace, juggle households, children, financial responsibilities etc. Women have learned how to match it with men in the boardroom as an equal and are often earning as much or more money than their partners, as well as taking on the lions share of the household duties. They are used to being in control of making things happen.</div>
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Yet on a deeper level, there is a part of the feminine psyche that longs to surrender and not have to be in control. Part of our inner feminine being longs for a man to take control for us and to allow us to relax & receive his strength as our protector & provider. This may be a shadow value for women as it's been masked by our desire to be strong and powerful. What we want in the workplace is different to what we want in our bedroom which is confusing on many levels for both men & women.</div>
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Many women subconsciously desire a man who has strength, presence, stakes his claim on her as his woman and lets her know how special she is to him. A recent study by UCLA showed that 64% of women had sexual fantasies about being ravished by their man (ravishment is not rape) - where the woman can let go, knowing someone else is in charge who knows what he is doing, desires her & is determined to bring her pleasure.</div>
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Christian Grey is handsome, successful, powerful, arrogant, in control, knows what he wants & sets out to get it.</div>
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He acts as her protector, rescuer, provider and he lets her know that she is his woman (and only his). He takes control and claims her, letting her know his strong intention to pleasure her.</div>
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This is the ALPHA MALE energy that strong women may be drawn to in their deepest fantasy as they want to feel that they can surrender to the strength of the masculine, and on many levels this is a very beautiful and positive energy for a relationship.</div>
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The challenges and twists in this story however are introduced through Christian's narcissistic behaviour where he displays lack of empathy, a strong need to feel important, arrogance, exploitation, cruelty and a sense of entitlement.</div>
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Did Christian love Anastasia?</div>
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He told he that he was unable to love - he was fifty shades of fucked up from the inner torment and pain he was feeling within from the traumatic experiences he'd had in his past. I think he loved her in the way that he was able to love, but in a different form to what we see as traditional love. When he had challenges in his business and things didn't go well for him he wanted to inflict pain to her and punish her - but at the same time he let her know how special she was to him. INTERESTING behaviour.</div>
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This film was part 1 - the first book, and at the end Anastasia chose to walk out on him.</div>
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But we are left knowing that this is not how the story ends and that she in inextricably drawn to him and intoxicated with his power over her, so she will be back to try to love the man who believes he is unloveable and unworthy of love despite his material success. Anastasia feels the intense desire to nurture and rescue him to heal his pain, and allow him to feel her love.</div>
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Now at the end of the day - this story is not for everyone, and I totally appreciate the polarising perspectives and emotions that have been aroused on this very controversial topic.</div>
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I'm curious as to how you feel and what you see as the deeper meaning of the story, the messages for masculine & feminine and why it has sold over 100 million copies of the book worldwide.</div>
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I came across this great article by Paul Hudson in Elite Daily and had to share them with you. Why? As they were written soo simply and soo accurately. So for all you Men out there, have a read as your Miss Right may be standing next to you sharing your fries and you were too blind to see...before you learn't those qualities below. Enjoy the read!</div>
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Every once in a while – on very rare occasions – we meet the woman of our dreams. It’s always unexpected and almost never at a convenient point in our lives, but she appears nonetheless and changes your life forever.</div>
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The dynamics between man and woman have been gradually changing for the past few decades, but the essence of the partnership basically remains the same.</div>
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We are designed by nature in a way that allows two such opposites to join and make a whole. Finding your other half is a journey of its own – usually a grueling one at that.</div>
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If you are lucky enough to find that woman, that rare sunflower growing on a barren desert, then do right by yourself and hold on to her as tightly as you can – never, ever let her go.</div>
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Not all of us were so wise when we met the loves of our lives… and believe me when I say that we’re regretting it. If she has any combination of these 12 qualities then you should never let her go:</div>
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1. She’s smarter than you.</h2>
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Every man needs a smarter woman to help him get through life in one piece. They say that behind every great man is a greater woman – they aren’t lying. Without woman, man is little more than an ego-trip.</div>
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Enter a smarter woman into his life and suddenly that ego has a purpose, a direction, and the wisdom not to screw everything up.</div>
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2. She’s beautiful.</h2>
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Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder – as long as you find her to be incredibly beautiful, according to your definition, then she is worth holding on to.</div>
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I feel that these days we have those that put too much emphasis on beauty and then those that are rebelling against the concept and giving little to no importance to beauty.</div>
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Beauty is something that has been reveled upon since humans had eyes; it’s not something that we should be ashamed of, but rather something we should learn to appreciate properly.</div>
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Good people are kind people. If she isn’t kind then she isn’t worthy of taking up a part of your life. Being a woman, being nurturing is very important as well. Some people may not want children.</div>
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In some relationships the man may be more nurturing than the woman. Nevertheless, women are born with/develop maternal instincts with age. If you wish to one day start a family then you want to be sure you found a woman who wants to be, and is suited to become, a mother.</div>
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4. She’s vivacious.</h2>
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Life gets difficult from time to time. It can get boring and monotonous just as well.</div>
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Women weren’t created to entertain men – if anything, it’s probably the other way around – but having a woman who is lively, energetic and hungry for adventure will add a dynamic to our life that will only make you happier.</div>
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5. She loves you with all her heart.</h2>
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This is, by far, the most important quality any woman can have. When a woman loves you she loves you with her entire soul. It’s not the same sort of love that men experience – men always were and always will be more egocentric than women.</div>
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Women, on the other hand, have the uncanny ability to devote themselves entirely to the person(s) they love. If you find a woman that truly loves you then you found the greatest gift in the universe.</div>
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6. She’s willing to make compromises.</h2>
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People are stubborn – both male and female alike. We like things the way that we like them and aren’t especially open to making changes we don’t deem necessary to make. However, relationships require making compromises.</div>
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It’s just the way things have to work if you want them to work. Finding a woman who will make compromises is only half the battle, however. You’re going to have to make them just as well.</div>
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7. She feels like home.</h2>
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Being in love, deeply in love, is like finding your place in the world, your home, for the first time in your life. It’s knowing that you are exactly where you ought to be and that there is nowhere in the world you’d rather be.</div>
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If you look into her eyes and see your soul reflected in them, then you’re home. Don’t ever leave.</div>
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8. She is more than happy to tell you when you’re wrong.</h2>
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Every man – and I mean every man – needs a woman who will call him out on his sh*t. Guys have an uncanny ability to make poor decisions and do stupid things.</div>
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Finding a woman who will keep you on track and tell you when you’re wrong can very well make or break your life.</div>
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9. She is strong, but feminine.</h2>
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All people have a slightly different taste for the women they are attracted to – but they are all a combination of strength and femininity. A strong woman is a partner every man needs.</div>
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A feminine woman is… well, a woman. The two aren’t opposites. In fact, they are often one and the same – when found in a woman that knows how to hold her ground and be proud of who she is.</div>
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10. She’s passionate.</h2>
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A life filled with passion is a life worth living. But living a life of passion alone is basically impossible. Passion exists between two living things – usually, in some way or another, between two individuals.</div>
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The beauty of passion is that it’s rather contagious. It’s the world’s most revered pathogen.</div>
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11. She’s driven.</h2>
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I understand that some men want women to be stay-at-home wives. I also understand that there are plenty of women who want the very same. This sort of woman isn’t for me, but clearly some people are looking for just this.</div>
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Nevertheless, you still want a woman that is driven. If she wants to stay at home, cook, clean, and take care of the children, then make sure she’s the kind of woman that wants to be the best stay-at-home mom she could possibly be. Without drive, there is no purpose.</div>
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12. She means the world to you.</h2>
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Sometimes we love a person beyond imagination and we aren’t sure why. To be truthful, you don’t really need a reason. If you love her and can’t imagine your life without her, then don’t allow yourself to lose her.</div>
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If she means that much to you, then understand that she means that much to you. Too often people don’t realize what the other person means to them until they lose them. We always think that there will be another chance, that it’s possible that the two of you will one day reconnect.</div>
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Maybe. But the opposite is also true. You may have lost her forever. You may suffer for years and years because you let go of the most important thing in your life. Don’t take the risk.</div>
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Have you ever wondered why we as women should masturbate (especially if you have a partner)?<div>
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I always wondered about this as my personal opinion and behaviour was "Why would I do this when he can do it for me?"</div>
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So now its time to look at a bunch of reasons why YOU should masturbate and I will make it as plain and simple as I can.</div>
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<b>You become more comfortable with your body</b></div>
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Here is the deal, the more you know your body the better you are at instructing your partner on where to go hunting for that sometimes mysterious spot that ends in an orgasm. Your pussy doesn't come with a manual just like a baby doesn't pop out with an instruction manual so ladies know where all your points of pleasure exist, instruct your partner and enjoy the increased new found bliss that comes with it.</div>
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<b>Your future partner will commend you for it</b></div>
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Do you know how hard it is to navigate every different vagina? I bet you didn't. Its not like a guys anatomy. Ours is more complicated ladies with different sensations in different places for all of us. </div>
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Its NOT a one size fits all concept where a partner learns one road map and it suits all women. So learn what makes you tick and talk talk talk about it!</div>
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<b>It can drastically improve your sex life</b></div>
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When you know where to navigate and pass that information on, whether that is through subtle hints and tips or just a blunt "show an tell" session, trust me, there is no way your sex life can't instantly improve.</div>
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<b>Great tension reliever</b></div>
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Stressed? Can't sleep? Simply...masturbate. Now depending on that stress level may depend on how many times you need to do this to 'take the edge off' however masturbation has always been a great stress relief. I mean think about, don't you occasionally say "Thank God" after you've experienced a Big O? I do!</div>
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<b>Definitely helps with the zzzzz</b></div>
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Now I know that its not uncommon that when I have sex at night I can end up wide awake (statistically this is common within women), however when I am stressed out and go for a Big O I find that that release in tension (like I said above) helps me to visit la la land much faster.</div>
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<b>Increases your happiness</b></div>
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How would you like to have a natural mood enhancer? Did you know that orgasms release a bunch of chemicals into your system like endorphins, oxytocin and our favourite...dopamine, which are all instant uplift mood enhancers?</div>
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So forget the hardcore gym workout and medical drugs and opt for a series of intense orgasms instead to lighten up your day.</div>
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<b>There are toys to assist in the exploration process</b></div>
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I could list 20 reasons why you are not having sex or masturbating right now. One of them is you never experience orgasms during sex (and a biggy for 85% of women who don't orgasm with penetration sex). So why not instead of letting your fingers do the walking add a new playmate toy to search, discover and vibrate you into a new level playing field. Toys are also great for those who have cultural, religious or physical disabilities to experience a whole new level of pleasure without technically getting your hands dirty. I have never heard of a woman not being pleasured with the right toy so I dare you to try!</div>
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<b>Amazingly relieves menstrual tension</b></div>
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Personally I've never been a big fan of having sex during 'that time of the month' however I have noticed that an orgasm has definitely alleviated the pain I experience at this time. When you orgasm you experience contractions increasing the blood flow and in-turn easing your cramps. Due to the mess factor I suggest finding your favourite toy and combining that with some special shower time to get the job done. Would you prefer a hot water bottle or an orgasm? Think about it.</div>
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<b>Keeps your body sexual</b></div>
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So your in a sexual hiatus for some reason. With masturbating you are not only keeping the elasticity and tissues in your private parts working, you are also increasing the blood flow to that area. Sex for women happens in the brain as we all know and by masturbating we are keeping that part of our brain active (imaginary and sensory) so when we get to bringing in a new partner to the scenario its like no time has passed. Here is a tip: the more sex you have the more sex you want!</div>
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So some of you have never had one. Why not try multiple. Did you know that when you have your first orgasm its easy to back it up with another one within minutes? Again a lot of women only experience this the first time after a little toy play cause lets face it...our hands get tired!</div>
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Thats right...why not. I know some of us have cultural and religious beliefs that get in the way of having sex before marriage however since when have they stated you can't orgasm before marriage? So let your fingers do the walking and hold clear a vision of your future partners expression when you know what does and doesn't work the first time you get naked between the sheets.</div>
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<b>It feels bloody amazing</b></div>
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Did I mention is F'n fantastic! You can keep your walks in the park thank you. I'll take a mind blowing orgasm any day. Your head will feel light, even a little dizzy like, your breath will quicken, your cheeks will go naturally rosie and you'll feel simply amazing! </div>
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<b>Take note ladies and don't screw it up!</b></div>
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<b>Frequent Eye contact</b><br />
That right. When he looks at you, I mean AT YOU, he is saying all he needs to say. Even if its across the room, when your eyes lock you should be able to feel his electricity. He is smitten!<br />
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<b>He is happy to do household chores</b><br />
He wants to help lighten the load. Don't knock it back ladies as this is his masculine energy actually coming out to play. Men are 'doers' and this is his way of expressing how he feels about you and this relationship.<br />
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<b>Meaningful gifts</b><br />
Anyone can walk into a shop and pluck something off the shelf but does that gift have any real thought put into to it? Is it linked to anything you have said in the past that you like, or match your personality. I have had gifts in the past that make me think "do you even know me??"<br />
So when he has given you a gift of meaning it means he has listened and it wasn't just selective this time.<br />
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<b>He send you random text message just because</b><br />
I love these. Completely random in topic and time. It means he has you in the forefront of his mind.<br />
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<b>He squeezes your hand when out in public or with mates</b><br />
This is the ultimate message that if you were alone right now he would probably rip your clothes off and give you the most passionate kiss you've had in weeks. Mmmmm<br />
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<b>Stands tall and proud</b><br />
He does this because of you not for you. you make him want to be a better man and a bigger man in this case (yes, pun intended).<br />
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<b>He listens to you intently</b><br />
Famous male 'selective hearing' does not come into play here. He is listening to you as he is genuinely interested in what you have to say. Trust me...does his eyes looked glazed over? If not he is soo into you.<br />
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<b>He smiles after he kisses you</b><br />
That's what I call the "yum yum bubblegum" smirk. He wants more!! Expect the next kiss to be more passionate then the one pre-smile.<br />
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<b>He loves being close...real close to you</b><br />
Well there is velcro babies and then the all consuming I want to just crawl into your skin closeness. you just can;t seem to get enough of it. The touch, the smell, your soft skin, your scent. It just keeps getting better every second he is close to you. So expect lots of snuggles, cuddling and canoodling!<br />
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<b>Spontaneous touching</b><br />
Just when you least expect it he will pull you close and stroke your cheek or even hold it in the palm of his hand while he haves in your eyes or gives you a gentle kiss. Or maybe its a cheeky pat on the butt. No matter what it is, when it spontaneous its great.<br />
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<b>His friends love you</b><br />
You can tell how someone likes you when you not only know he has told his mates but they have met you and like you. For a bloke this is important as in his mind his spare time will be divided between his mates and his lover which is hopefully you!<br />
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<b>He gives you long...lasting deep kisses</b><br />
These are the ones that when you walk away your head is spinning a little. When you think of him your thinking of that kiss and licking your lips. Long...deep...passionate.<br />
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<b>Mirrored behaviour</b><br />
When couples are connected on the next level they have a tendency to mirror not only each others responses to things and behaviour but also start dressing and physically looking the same. Same tone clothes or fashion styling come sin to play here. If you don't believe me, next time your out and about do some people watching and take note of there clothing. It matches doesn't it!<br />
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<b>He finds you hilarious</b><br />
Its not hard work to make him smile let alone find you refreshingly amusing. Yes you!<br />
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<br />Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-60386142132590213622014-12-21T23:15:00.003-08:002015-01-20T22:43:50.035-08:00Coming Out Kinky to Your Doctor, in Black and BlueI loved this article by Heather Boerner who talks about how as more people embrace their inner
kinkster, doctors need to know the details to provide quality health
care. This… can be complicated.<br />
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<section class="content-body article-body-content">Recently,
Claire Conrad, 36, found herself trussed up in stirrups—and not in a
fun way. Conrad was at the ob-gyn to check to see if, as the Maryland
resident likes to put it, “My cervix is trying to kill me.”<br />
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had an abnormal pap smear, and was getting a colposcopy to make sure it
wasn’t cancer. In the process, Conrad, who asked that her real name not
be used, was coming out to her ob-gyn as kinky. It was plain as the
purple and black caning marks on her legs.<br />
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Conrad, you see, is in an open marriage and enjoys a little submission and a little pain with her sex.<br />
When her doctor blurted out, “Oh! You <i>are</i>
bruised,” Conrad figured it could have been worse. Still, she left the
appointment with the clear sense that the staff would be gossiping about
her after she’d gone. If she ever had a caning session that broke the
skin and became infected, she said she’d think twice about going back to
her doctor.<br />
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“That’s a tough one,” she said. “If I had been
injured, I don’t think I would be comfortable with talking to my doctor
about it. Even if I did, I don’t know if I would be honest about what
happened.”<br />
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Conrad’s not alone. Preliminary research finds that fewer than half
of all kinksters are out to their healthcare providers about their
kinks—and that’s in the San Francisco Bay Area, a notoriously
kink-friendly place. Among those that are out, almost everyone
anticipated being stigmatized, prompting them to hide aspects of their
behavior that could impact their health. And while the medical field has
gotten better about understanding sexual minorities, there’s still a
distance to go before kinksters like Conrad feel comfortable in medical
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“Up until now, it’s been a don’t-ask-don’t-tell kind of situation,” said Dr. Jess Waldura, lead investigator of <a href="http://www.tashra.org/" sl-processed="1" target="_blank">The Alternative Sexualities Health Research Alliance (TASHRA)</a>,
which plans to conduct a nationwide survey in 2015. “We need to
destigmatize kink so providers can think straight when we’re confronted
by it.”<br />
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<b>The New Don’t-Ask-Don’t Tell</b><br />
In the past
year, Dr. Mike Lesniak has noticed a trend: His urgent care clinic in
rural Pennsylvania was the go-to place for kinksters to get their wounds
treated. He figured that was because the clinic wasn’t set up to
document injuries in a way that would be admissible in court. And
because he wasn’t their primary care doctor, they wouldn’t have to worry
about looking him in the eye next time they needed to have a sinus
infection checked out.<br />
The experience left Lesniak in a quandary.
He wanted to make sure the wounds were consensual. And he’d want to make
sure that, if they were, they were being made safely.<br />
“Sometimes,
they’d say, ‘Everything’s OK,’ and you could tell it was. Other times,
the response would be, ‘Everything’s OK,’ but you would get the vibe
that there’s <i>no way</i> that everything is OK,” he said. “I try to
delve into what they are doing so that I can assure myself that they are
acting safely. And if not, then I can help them adjust some things to
be safer.”<br />
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Kinksters’ reticence makes sense. Before 2013, people interested in
bondage and discipline or sado-masochism (BDSM)—that is, getting an
erotic thrill from being tied up or tying someone else up, or hurting
someone or being hurt by someone—were treated in the Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual (DSM), the bible of psychiatric care, as a mental
disorder that could then be used in court to remove children from
kinkster parents, among other things. Today, the DSM defines BDSM as a
kink that only becomes a disorder if it’s causing distress or
dysfunction.<br />
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The problem, said Dr. Charles Moser, a San
Francisco-based internal medicine physician and perhaps the leading
researcher on kink in healthcare, is that it’s up to a doctor to
determine if a kink is causing distress. If the doctor is biased, he may
still classify it as a disorder that can lead to legal repercussions.<br />
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<b>Shame-Free Care</b><br />
It’s a shame because, though because the
majority of the 120 self-identified Bay Area kinksters Waldura
recruited for the initial study said it’s important to be open with
one’s providers about one’s kink, fewer than half actually were. And
many said they had physical and mental health needs associated with
their kinks.<br />
<br />
Those needs varied depending on where respondents
were in the kink universe. You’d expect submissives and masochists to
sustain more injuries than dominants and sadists—but neither tend to
bring their concerns to physicians, said Moser.<br />
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Moser had made a
practice of treating the kinky. Sometimes this means talking about
hepatitis A and B vaccines and risk for hepatitis C infection with
someone participating in blood play, or talking about how to reduce risk
of infection if someone is playing with needles. More often, thought,
it’s high blood pressure, diabetes and other typical health needs that
go unaddressed when kinksters delay care to avoid provider bias.<br />
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“I always say that people have more accidents on the way to and from the play party than at the party,” said Moser, author of <i>Healthcare Without Shame</i>.<br />
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Avoiding
care can lead to the same kind of health disparities experienced by
anyone who delays care: unchecked diabetes, for instance, or undiagnosed
high blood pressure, which put people at higher risk for major health
problems like kidney failure or heart attack.<br />
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And while other research indicates that kinksters may be more mentally healthy than their vanilla counterparts, the TASHRA participants said they experienced fears around talking to therapists about their kinks.<br />
<br />
Keely
Kolmes, a San Francisco-based psychologist, mostly sees people who
don’t come to talk about their kinks. But their kinks do come up. For
instance, when a couple is having trouble, the tension and hostility can
bleed into BDSM scenes. Or, power dynamics from sexual scenes can bleed
through to non-kink interactions when that’s not what the couple wants.
Sometimes novices to the scene have abusive experiences with new play
partners and want help working through the trauma so they can engage in
their kink in a healthy way. Longtime kinksters can need help working
through feelings of inadequacy when a bottom leaves an encounter
unsatisfied, either sexually or emotionally.<br />
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Sometimes she sees
clients who are ambivalent about their kink identities. She treats them
the way she would treat someone who’s coming out as gay, helping them
accept themselves and their sexuality as a normal, healthy part of their
lives and connects them to community support.<br />
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Not everyone is so
understanding. In a study Kolmes did as part of her doctoral
dissertation, she found that some kinksters had therapists who hammered
on the idea that BDSM was a sign of childhood trauma. Some of these
therapists required them to give up their kink to continue in therapy.<br />
Kolmes hopes the TASHRA research will start more discussions among providers.<br />
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“I’m
a strong believer that the world is not broken up into kinky people and
not-kinky people,” she said. “Like many aspects of sexuality, I view
kink behaviors and fantasies on a continuum. I’d love to see research on
people whose sexual behavior varies based on partners. People who don’t
think they’re kinky fall in love with people who want to be spanked or
want to role-play. Our sexual behavior shifts so much. Things become
erotic that weren’t before because it’s exciting to our partners and it
becomes exciting to us.”<br />
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<b>Opening Up</b><br />
One could hardly
get more out than Eric Paul Leue. Leue, the reigning Mr. LA Leather and
director of sexual health and policy for San Francisco-based BDSM,
bondage and fetish site, <span class="skimlinks-unlinked">Kink.com</span>, has shared his pup name and his role in the leather community with his parents.<br />
When he goes to the doctor, he sees another leatherman—former International Mr. Leather, Dr. Tony Mills.<br />
“If
I need a cardiologist, for example, I would reach out to people in the
community,” he said, “because who knows what my doctor is doing outside
the office? I want to trust her or him, and know that I am understood,
not judged, not side-eyed.”<br />
<br />
Leue’s not alone. The Kink-Aware Professionals Directory
lists doctors, therapists, chiropractors, dentists, and others who
affirm kink identities. Still, Leue knows it’s easier for him. He splits
his time between LA and San Francisco.<br />
Openness might be a
function of sexuality and gender, as well. When Waldura put out the call
for kinksters to participate in research via social networks, she
noticed that it was shared mostly by straight people using pseudonyms on
the kink website FetLife and openly, under real names by leather men
like Leue on Facebook.<br />
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Some of this, she suspects, is because gay
men have been emboldened by their sexual outsider status. But some of it
could be providers’ judgment of women’s sexuality in general.<br />
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For
instance, one woman she interviewed for the study was kinky, obese and
had multiple partners. It wasn’t her kink that tripped up her doctors.
“Her providers couldn’t believe she was having sex at all because she
was fat,” said Waldura. “A lot of women I talked to were highly sexually
active. For some providers, that’s the problem.”<br />
<br />
Conrad can
relate. Though she’s been married for a decade, Conrad’s marriage has
gone through periods of being open and periods of being closed. Right
now, it’s open and she’s been enjoying multiple partners for the last
year. So, when she asked for a pap and sexually transmitted infection
screening, her nurse was confused. When she outed herself as having
multiple partners, her nurse’s reaction was, in Conrad’s words, “judge.”<br />
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Ironically,
Conrad, who is getting a degree in public health, has worked with the
two other doctors in her ob-gyn’s practice. On the one hand, she was
anxious about her colleagues knowing about her kink. On the other, as a
public health expert, she regretted that discomfort meant they’d missed a
chance to provide better healthcare.<br />
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“It would have been a
perfect opportunity to have a conversation,” she said. “Kink needs to be
normalized. If someone says, ‘I practice x, y, or z,’ or ‘These are
rope burns,’ it needs to be a conversation about what the realistic
risks are that people are facing, physically and emotionally. These are
all opening the door for a conversation that could help negate any
negative impact.”<br /><br />
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When a man says this he is in his true masculine energy form. He is protector and makes her feel loved and cherished.<br />
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As with even the last one "Please marry me" what the point being married to someone who doesn't make you feel like you are his 'queen!'<br />
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1 Decreases Cortisol</h2>
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Allowing your body to cool at night lowers cortisol levels. Cortisol can cause serious problems ranging from disrupted sleep cycles to serious weight gain.</div>
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2 Comfortable in Your Own Skin</h2>
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Growth hormones are released when you sleep naked. This helps to: promote bone density, lowers your risks of diabetes and heart disease, repairs tissue, builds muscle, promotes a healthier body weight and stimulates the growth of internal organs as well as a healthier immune system.</div>
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4 Colder Temps = Youthful Life</h2>
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Keeping the temperature around 70 degrees while sleeping helps the anti-aging hormones and melatonin to do their job. Sleeping naked will keep you slightly cooler and it could have a positive effect on your life overall.</div>
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5 Happier Together</h2>
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If you sleep naked with your partner, that skin-on-skin contact will release some oxytocin. Oxytocin makes you happier, reduces social anxieties and helps with overall satisfaction.</div>
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6 Better Loving</h2>
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In addition to being happier after this kind of sleep, you'll also be in the mood a lot more. The release of oxytocin will not only increases your sex drive but it could offer up better orgasms!</div>
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Ladies, yeast infections are a pretty real risk. Sleeping in constricting clothes increases yeast as it thrives in warmer, moist conditions but by giving some air, your lady parts will stay cool and dry.</div>
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8 Increases Reproductive Chances For Men</h2>
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Gentlemen, sleeping in cooler conditions is good for your reproductive parts too. Keeping your testes cool will keep your sperm healthy and functioning better.</div>
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This is a humorous reason to consider sleeping in the nude, but it's a pretty good point. You'll have one less set of clothes to wash each time once PJs are taken out of your regular equation.</div>
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Summertime can be unbearable, especially if you don't have a quality air conditioner. This can result in worse sleep because it's just too dang hot! Sleeping naked should help solve that, afterall, it's the one time of the day where you can be nude and no one can stop you.</div>
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1. This gives a skewed perception to young men that this is what not only turns women on but that this is HOW you have sex (as young men don't understand porn is all about the camera angles and fake orgasms by women) and<br />
2. Excessive porn viewing combined with masturbation causes ED (erectile dysfunction) which is becoming an silent epidemic today.<br />
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So please share this article written by Jamie Utt. If your unsure of how to broach the subject and educate your young son just forward him the article and educate him today before he grows up!<br />
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Let’s face it: Most sexuality education is terrible.</div>
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If you’ve received a formal sex education, it likely went a little like this:</div>
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“<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">Sex is a special covenant between a man and a woman. Here’s a little information about the biology of sexual intercourse between a man and a woman. And here are a bunch of horrifying pictures of STI’s that will scare you into remaining abstinent until marriage.”</i></div>
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And we think that it’s time we change that.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Sex ed <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">has to</i> change.</b></div>
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Because if we don’t do a better job of teaching healthy sexuality, we leave it up to pornography, television, music, and movies to do our job – and <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">none of those</i> are <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">accurate, comprehensive</i> sources of sexuality education.</div>
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It’s time we teach our young people about more than just biology, STI’s, and abstinence.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">It’s time we teach about how to have amazing, fulfilling, consensual, and healthy sex.</b></div>
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Cynthia Kane already wrote a fantastic guide for having great sex on the first time, but since some of the most effective sexual education is split up by gender, the brilliant <a href="mailto:http://everydayfeminism.com/author/melissaf/" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">Melissa A. Fabello</a> and I are here with a two-part article to amplify Cynthia’s message.</div>
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And since I identify as a man, I will start things off by talking to the boys and men out there.</div>
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That said, let me be clear that I am a cisgender man, and as such, many of these lessons come from a cisgender perspective and should be treated as limited in that way.</div>
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<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">So what are some steps to take before diving into sex for the first time? What are some important facts to know? And why are they important?</i></div>
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Let’s take a look.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">1. Get to Know Your Body</b></h2>
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Amazing sex starts with you knowing a bit about your body and what you want and need from your partner. So before you head into the bedroom with another person, you need to spend some time by yourself.</div>
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Yup. <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">I’m telling you to masturbate.</b></div>
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But I don’t mean the <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“jerk off quickly in the bathroom before someone catches me” </i>kind of masturbation.</div>
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I mean taking your time, exploring your <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">whole</i> body, figuring out what does (and doesn’t!) feel good.</div>
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<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">How do you like to be touched, where do you like to be touched, and in what ways do you like to be touched?</i></div>
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More and more, young women are being told to familiarize themselves with their bodies (which they should!), but young men aren’t being told the same thing.</div>
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The idea that a man would take the time to light some candles, draw a bath, and explore his body for maximum masturbatory pleasure is considered laughable. <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">Let’s change that!</i></div>
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Too often, we just treat male pleasure and orgasm as being easy. <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Having fulfilling sex, though, means having a much more comprehensive knowledge about your own pleasure.</b></div>
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Did you know that one of the most powerful orgasms a man can have has virtually <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">nothing</i> to do with his penis?</div>
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It’s called a prostate orgasm, and most men never experience this tremendous joy because of the taboo around anal play being <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“gay”</i> and thus <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“terrible and disgusting and eww.”</i></div>
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Whether it’s a prostate orgasm or neck kissing, you won’t know what works best for you, though, if you never take the time to explore.</div>
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Long before anyone tried to talk to me about sex, bodies, or relationships, I learned about those things from porn.</div>
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I was introduced to pornography at a very young age, and before that, I got plenty of confusing and misleading messages from TV or movies.</div>
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Now, both men <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">and</i> women get taught misinformation (which can sometimes be damaging) from media in general and porn specifically, but dudes, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">it’s time we unpack some of what we’re taught.</b></div>
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First, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">you don’t have to be in charge</b>.</div>
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Rarely in any media do we see women who are taking the lead in sex. Nowhere is this more evident than in porn, where women are <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">almost</i> <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">never</i> seen taking charge – except in fetish porn where women are explicitly dominant.</div>
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Instead, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">sex should be a conversation </b>(more on that later)<b style="box-sizing: border-box;"> where both people are communicating and asserting their needs and desires.</b></div>
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Second, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">your partner may not want your semen all over them</b>.</div>
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There are some people who are totally down with facials (or semen anywhere for that matter) and find them hot, but porn makes it seem like every person wants your ejaculate all over them at all times. <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">And it’s not true.</i></div>
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In fact, a lot of people find things like facials to be degrading expressions of dominance and control.</div>
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Thus, before you go shooting your spunk, you may want to chat with your partner about things like condom use (see below) and where that sticky stuff is (and isn’t) welcome.</div>
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Third, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">no one is owed anything in sex.</b></div>
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One of the most powerful media messages that men receive is that we are <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">owed</i> pleasure and gratification and access to others’ bodies.</div>
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If all we knew of sex came from porn or mainstream media, we’d assume that men must orgasm for sex to be sex and that all bodies exist for the sole purpose of pleasing men.</div>
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Not only is that selfish (and boring), but it’s downright misogynistic.</div>
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Instead, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">think of your pleasure as wrapped up in the consent and pleasure of your partner!</b></div>
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Sex will be more fun and fulfilling that way.</div>
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Finally, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">sex is about more than orgasms and penetration</b>.</div>
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If there’s any clear message from media, it’s that sex is about the dude putting his penis in any given orifice, and when he reaches orgasm, sex is over.</div>
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On the contrary, though, <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">sex is about connecting with another human being on a number of levels</b>, and if you’re only focused on either getting or giving an orgasm, you’re going to miss out on big parts of that connection.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Be present.</b> Realize that sometimes the best pleasure comes before or after orgasm and that there are countless ways to experience sexual pleasure.</div>
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Want some more information about pornography and media literacy? Check out these awesome resources:</div>
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<li style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style-type: disc;"><a href="http://www.alternet.org/story/154699/the_absurd_myths_porn_teaches_us_about_sex?page=0%2C0" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">The Absurd Myths Porn Teaches Us About Sex</a></li>
<li style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style-type: disc;"><a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/03/did-porn-warp-me-forever/" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">Did Pornography Warp Me Forever?</a></li>
<li style="box-sizing: border-box; list-style-type: disc;"><a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/02/fantasy-vs-reality-lesbian-sex-in-pornography/" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">Fantasy vs. Reality: Lesbian Sex in Pornography</a></li>
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Now, I know that I started this piece by criticizing the fear-based education that focuses on STI’s.</div>
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But that doesn’t mean that some attention to STI’s isn’t important. They are a reality. At best, they are an uncomfortable inconvenience, and at worst, they are deadly.</div>
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As men, something you’re probably used to hearing about are condoms, but they are only a small part of the prevention and protection picture.</div>
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Long before ever putting on a condom, prevention begins in talking with your partner about your health status.</div>
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One great way to do that is to say, <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“Hey, I would love to get tested before we are sexually active. Would you like to go get tested together?”</i></div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Getting tested does not mean that you’re dirty or that you have reason to believe you have an STI!</b></div>
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Quite the opposite.</div>
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It’s preventative medicine.</div>
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Just like you get a physical once a year or a dental checkup, getting STI tested is important if you’ve been sexually active.</div>
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From there, it’s important to think about protection.</div>
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You’ve probably heard, <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“Use a condom.”</i></div>
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But you’ve probably never heard, <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“Make sure to measure your penis so you find the best fit!”</i></div>
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Fit is vital to ensure pleasure and safety, so make sure you know which size to buy. Also, remember that there are about a million types of condoms. So experiment a little!</div>
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Know, though, that using a condom when having intercourse is not the only type of protection that you should be using.</div>
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Very few people use protection during oral sex, but there is a risk of <a href="http://brown.edu/Student_Services/Health_Services/Health_Education/sexual_health/sexually_transmitted_infections/oral_sex_&_STIs.php" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">STI contraction from oral</a>. So make sure you pick up some <a href="http://thecondomreview.com/products/ultimate-flavored-condom-sampler" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">flavored condoms</a> and <a href="http://www.undercovercondoms.com/Product/Types/Flavored-Dams/258/Flavored-Dams.html?DivID=DentalDams" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">dental dams</a> (not sure what a dental dam is? <a href="http://www.pamf.org/teen/sex/std/oral/dentaldam.html" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">Look here!</a>).</div>
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Finally, if you’re having straight intercourse, it’s important to talk about pregnancy prevention.</div>
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If your partner wants to use birth control, consider splitting the cost (since it’s possible for birth control to get expensive), and make sure that you’re consistent.</div>
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More than any other factor, good sex comes from one thing: <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">communication.</i></div>
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And that’s a problem for men because we’re socialized to believe that we’re bad at communication and that “talking” through things that are important to us is feminine.</div>
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But if you want amazing sex, you need to start talking with your partner. And that conversation likely needs to start before you’ve even touched one another.</div>
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Ideally, your first time is happening in the context of a healthy, communicative relationship. So sit down with your partner and talk about what you both want from your sexual relationship.</div>
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<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">Are you on the same page with “taking the next step” sexually, whatever that step may be?</i></div>
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Perhaps you should both fill out a “Yes, No, Maybe Chart” and discuss your responses with each other.</div>
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I promise it will only be awkward if you decide ahead of time that it’s going to be awkward.</div>
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On the contrary, if you take the time to talk through things before taking the next step, your sex will <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">be</i> <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">much</i> more amazing for the both of you.</div>
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But don’t think the communication should end there.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">5. Expectations for the Big Moment</b></h2>
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I don’t know about you, but when I was thinking about my first time having sex, one thing I wasn’t thinking a lot about was how I would communicate with my partner.</div>
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But the single most important aspect of sex is also one of the least talked about: <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">consent</b>.</div>
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When many of us hear the term, we think of some stiff, cardboard interaction with another person: <i style="box-sizing: border-box;">“May I put my hand on your arm now, please?” “Yes you may!” “Now may I lean closer?” Yes you may!”</i></div>
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But I am here to tell you: <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">active, enthusiastic consent has the power to be the single sexiest part of your sexual experiences if you do it right.</b></div>
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To do that, first you need to get rid of the idea that consent is a one-time, blanket permission or that silence or non-affirmation is consent. Thinking of consent this way is not only a huge turnoff, but it is downright dangerous, and it’s time that we, as dudes, change this perception.</div>
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Instead, think of consent as a constant conversation in words, expressions, games, sensuality, looks, bodies. Need some ideas on what that means? Check out “<a href="http://everydayfeminism.com/2012/12/want-the-best-sex-of-your-life-just-ask/" style="-webkit-transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out; box-sizing: border-box; color: #ff6600; text-decoration: none; transition: all 0.1s ease-in-out;">Want the Best Sex of Your Life? Just Ask!</a>”</div>
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Plain and simple: <b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Sex that is built upon the constant communication of enthusiastic consent is guaranteed to be the most incredible sex that two (or more!) human beings are capable of having.</b></div>
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Aside from a better knowledge of consent, here are a few other things I wish I had been told about the deed before the first time I had sex:</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">It’s okay to ask for things that you want/need</b>! In fact, unless your partner is a mind reader, if you are going to have amazing sex, you need to! But you also have to be willing to listen when your partner does the same.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">If you reach orgasm really quickly, don’t worry!</b> That doesn’t mean that sex has to be over! Explore some other ways to give and receive pleasure. There is no prescribed time in which you’re supposed to ejaculate.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Having a hard time orgasming? </b>That’s also okay! Talk to your partner about what each of you need to feel more pleasure next time, and take some time exploring each other’s bodies! Oh, and “blue balls” is very rare, and it should not be used as an excuse to pressure someone into giving you an orgasm. “<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">I really want to cum</i>” and “<i style="box-sizing: border-box;">I am experiencing a rare medical condition characterized by sharp, acute pain in my testicles</i>” are not the same thing.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Great sex comes from listening. </b>If something feels amazing and they arch toward you, remember that. If something’s not doing it for them, maybe they won’t tell you for fear of embarrassing you or themselves, but their body likely will. Then you can ask! “I noticed you started breathing REALLY heavily when I did such-and-such. Should I do more of that?” or “I noticed you weren’t really into blah-blah-blah. Was I reading you right?”</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">Men Need to Talk to Men and Boys</b></h2>
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It’s time that men start having more accountable conversations with men and boys about healthy, positive sexuality.</div>
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<b style="box-sizing: border-box;">It is our responsibility to raise a generation of men who are committed to ending sexual violence, and a great place for us to start is by building the healthiest sexual relationships that we can.</b></div>
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So if you have suggestions about what else men and boys need to hear to have amazing first time sex, share them in the comment.</div>
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Are you a dad or a big brother or a mentor? Give this article to the young men in your life and chat with them about it!<br />
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For one thing, swingers report more exciting and satisfying lives than the general population.<br />
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Consensually non-monogamous (CNM) relationships, where committed partners mutually agree not to be sexually and/or romantically exclusive to one another, are slowly gaining visibility in the media. Yet, a few anecdotes aside, they are still shrouded in stereotype and mystery. Here are 12 things that recent research reveals about these relationships and the people involved in them. (Some of this research is so brand new that it hasn’t yet been published, only presented at professional conferences, so you’re getting a sneak preview.)<br />
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<b>People in CNM relationships may be more prevalent than gay people.</b> Up to 2% of U.S. women identify as lesbian, and up to 4% of men identify as gay. We don’t have nationally representative data on CNM, but in large online samples, 4-5% of respondents say they’re currently in a CNM relationship. Broken down by sexual orientation among Vermont couples, a CNM agreement was had by 3.5% hetero couples, 5% lesbian couples, and up to 50% gay male couples. Yes, gay men are waaay more likely to practice CNM than everyone else.<br />
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<b>Up to 40% of men and up to 25% of women might consider CNM. </b>That is how many of 600 participants in a monogamous relationship said they would switch to nonmonogamy if they lived in a world where everyone had open relationships. These data are yet to be published, but some already published research suggests similar openness among many people to try CNM if their partner suggested or OK’d it.<br />
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<b>Desire for (non)monogamy exists on a continuum.</b> In his bestseller Sex at Dawn, Chris Ryan argued that humans as a species are nonmonogamous. However, new data from Lisa Dawn Hamilton’s lab suggests it may be more accurate to think of the tendency toward (non)monogamy as a personality characteristic that ranges on a spectrum from very low to very high (just like, say, extraversion and introversion). In other words, some people are completely monogamous, others are completely nonmonogamous, and many more are somewhere in between.<br />
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<b>Stigma against CNM is strong, robust, and incredibly pervasive.</b> CNM and the people engaged in it are considered worse than monogamists on virtually every personal or relationship characteristic you could think of, including sexual health, commitment, trust, romance, kindness, loneliness, jealousy, generosity, life satisfaction, education, and success, to name a few. In a psychological phenomenon called the “halo effect,” this negativity extends to traits and behaviors that have nothing to do with relationships. People think that non-monogamists are worse at paying taxes, dog walking, taking multivitamins, or teeth flossing.<br /><br />This stigma is so pervasive, <b>that even people who are themselves in a CNM relationship think that CNM is inferior to monogamy</b> on almost all of the above characteristics. This is kind of like internalized homophobia experienced by gay people –living in world that strongly stigmatizes your sexual orientation or lifestyle, you can’t help but internalize those prejudices.<br /><br /><b>Not all CNM types are perceived as equally bad.</b> Swingers (who typically have purely casual sex with others, together with their partners, often in group sex situations) are perceived as dirtier, less moral, less responsible, and less mature than polyamorists (who typically have multiple, long-term sexual and romantic relationships). Those in open relationships (who typically have casual sex with others, but one-on-one, separately from their main partners) were perceived somewhere in between.<br /><br /><b>When having sex with other people, CNM folks are more responsible regarding health than supposedly monogamous people who are cheating.</b> CNM people are less likely to drink or do drugs beforehand, and more likely to use condoms for vaginal and anal sex, discuss prior partner and STI testing history, cover or sterilize sex toys, and, of course, tell their primary partner about it. What’s more, when they do use condoms, CNM people are more likely than cheaters to use them properly, like check for damage or pinch the tip before putting on the condom, and less likely to make mistakes, like put it on the wrong way then just flip it over, or put it on after intercourse started.<br /><br />As a result, <b>CNM people do not report more sexually transmitted infections than monogamous folks.</b> As I reported in a recent Playboy article, unpublished data presented at by Justin Lehmiller suggests that people in CNM relationships report virtually identical rates of STIs as those in monogamous relationships – about 20%.<br /><br /><b>Swingers report more exciting and satisfying lives</b>—sexually and otherwise—than the general population. In the general U.S. population, 32% say they are “very happy” with their lives and 46% think their life is exciting; by comparison, in a large sample of over 1,000 swingers, these numbers were 59% and 76%, respectively. Moreover, 25% of women and 9% of men in the general U.S. population have not had a single orgasm in the past year. Compare that to another large sample of over 1,200 swingers, where less than 5% of women and 1% of men reported never reaching orgasm during swinging (and they may still reach orgasm when not swinging).<br />
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People in CNM relationships experience less jealousy than those in monogamous relationships. This is certainly true of gay couples. New, yet-to-be-published data from Terri Conley’s lab suggest it is also true of hetero couples, with polyamorists being particularly low on jealousy. This shouldn’t be surprising really – people who would consider a nonexclusive arrangement are probably pretty non-jealous to begin with.<br /><br /><b>Finally, CNM couples usually report similar (and sometimes higher) relationship quality than monogamous couples</b>, including things like relationship satisfaction, intimacy, trust, commitment, or communication between those in monogamous versus CNM relationships. Together with some of Conley’s new research, it looks like this may depend on the type of CNM, with polyamorists showing greater relationship quality than monogamists, those in open relationships showing lower quality, and swingers showing no differences either way.<br /><br />Perhaps more critically, it may be the lying and hiding that’s linked to worse relationships. In two studies of gay couples, those who were really monogamous and those in CNM relationships had similar relationship quality; it was the cheaters that showed lower relationship quality than both non-cheating groups.<br /><br />There is so much more to be learned about CNM and the people involved in it, but science is finally starting to ask these questions.<br />
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1. Remember that you’re 100 percent responsible for your own happiness.<br /><br />
2. Don’t be dependent or independent but be interdependent.<br /><br />
3. Be fun.<br />
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4. Be a friend.<br /><br />
5. Show your appreciation, do it often. That includes in bed. Know what I mean? <br /><br />
6. Let him off the hook, especially after you’ve made him aware of his infraction and he has apologized.<br /><br />
7. Live in the present moment.<br /><br />
8. Even when you’re upset at him, take responsibility for your actions and feelings.<br /><br />
9. More often than not, choose happiness over being right.<br />
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10. Cultivate a Lightness of Being.<br />
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Running errands doesn’t have to be boring — just ask Amanda Chatel. The 36-year-old writer recently went out to pick up her laundry, visit Duane Reade and grab a drink at a local bar — all while wearing a new vibrator called the We-Vibe 4 Plus. Because it can be controlled remotely by an app, her husband — back at their apartment — turned it on and off as she went about her errands.<br />
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“[It] reminded me of my first Brazilian wax. I was overly aware of that part of my body, and felt like I was walking sex. But the difference was that I clearly remember strutting after my first Brazilian, and We-Vibe doesn’t allow for such a swing of my hips,” recalls Chatel. “I felt too much swing would result in it falling out of place, down my pant leg and onto the ground. Then I wouldn’t feel like walking sex anymore, but instead a horrified woman staring at her vibrator on the sidewalk.”<br /><br />
Sex toys are not just for singles — or the bedroom — anymore. The We-Vibe 4 is not the first of its kind — other vibrators, like Oh-MiBod, can be remotely controlled by app as well.<br /><br />
But it claims to be the first hands-free device out there — it can easily fit under clothing — so now, anyone can get those good vibrations going, even when they’re not in the same room as their partner.<br /><br />
To access it, both partners download the free <a href="http://loveandindulgence.com.au/index.php?id_product=383&controller=product" target="_blank">We-Vibe 4 Plus app </a>from the iTunes App Store and register the vibrator. When your partner asks to connect, you can send him or her a link that enables them to control the device. He or she can choose from various vibrations, such as “peak” or “bounce.” The U-shaped toy is just three inches long and costs $210.<br />
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Although Chatel and her husband bought one only a few weeks ago, the East Village resident says the We-Vibe 4 Plus has already added a certain buzz to her everyday tasks.<br /><br />
“First [we] tried it together in the apartment with the remote control,” she says. “Then, we added the app to the mix and started experimenting with how far away I could go.”<br /><br />
“It’s especially great in long-distance relationships,” says We-Vibe’s global passion ambassador Tristan Weedmark. “If you’re in New York and your partner is in Taiwan, it can boost intimacy.”<br /><br />
Relationship expert Andrea Syrtash agrees. “Dirty talk, video chats and photos can turn on a couple who are trying to stay connected from a distance,” she says. “But the We-Vibe adds another — very physical — dimension.”<br /><br />
Using the app can also allow your significant other to take control — and experience the thrill of doing something naughty in public — without risking being too obvious.<br /><br />
“As we saw with the appetite for ‘Fifty Shades of Grey,’ people are interested in trying new things,” Weedmark says. “Couples [can] bring foreplay into their dinner dates. The female will wear the We-Vibe [at a restaurant], and her partner will control it on the app.”<br /><br />
But if you dare to adopt this approach, choose your timing carefully. “Don’t turn the app on and off when one of you is in a business meeting or a public place where it may be a little uncomfortable — or unprofessional,” cautions Syrtash.<br /><br />
Indeed. “When picking up my laundry, it was turned on and it was slightly audible,” Chatel recalls. “I passed it off as my phone, because I felt I had to say something.”<br /><br />
And, she adds, “Snug undies help.”Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-85285291005666050682014-10-23T04:07:00.000-07:002014-10-23T04:07:00.936-07:00Online Dating Over 50: The Rules of The GameHigh50's Monica Porter, who dated "dangerously" for a year, shares nine top tips to help protect yourself, including: don't believe anything, be careful who you get into bed with and split the check.<br />
<br />If you're looking for romance through online dating, make skepticism your starting point, says Monica.<br /><br />The world of online dating should be regarded as a vast pick-up joint. I know because I immersed myself in it for a year (in my late fifties), and believe me, whether I was encountering horny young men or equally horny (if less crude) older men, the ultimate aim was sex.<br /><br />That doesn't mean you can't find a serious relationship, even real love, online. After all, a lot of today's married couples met on a dating site. But if that is what you are after, you must be extra wary of (pardon the expression) who you "get into bed with."<br /><br />As a mature adult you'll need to employ all the healthy skepticism you've built up over the decades, because it's easy on the internet for a person to be economical with the truth, or to tell outright lies about who they are and what they're after.<br />
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<br /><br /><b>Rule #1 of dating over 50: Don't believe anyone.</b><br /><br />So, lesson number one: believe in nothing until it happens, and no one until you know them.<br /><br />Emotionally, you need to construct a wall around yourself which nobody can penetrate until you believe it to be safe. People will plunder your emotions without compunction if you let them. It is up to you keep them locked up, like jewels.<br /><br />Some women, in particular, leave themselves emotionally vulnerable by investing too much hope in a particular potential mate, or after physical intimacy with someone.<br /><br />If you meet someone you fancy, by all means enjoy good, fun sex. But - hard-nosed as it sounds, and I can't pretend it's always easy - take the emotion out of it or you will be hurt over and over again.<br /><br />If and when a deeper relationship comes along, don't worry, emotion will come flooding back.<br /><br />Then there is the scamming side of online dating. Most people have heard the woeful tales of vulnerable, lonely women preyed on by men who promise them love before persuading them to stump up big bucks for a bogus medical bill or some other phony hard-luck scenario.<br /><br />But it works both ways. There are also the glamorous young foreign women (often revealed to be prostitutes) who expertly manipulate an older man's vanity as an easy way into his wallet, or perhaps to gain British nationality.<br /><br /><b>Rule #2: Don't part with money.</b><br /><br />Lesson number two: if it all sounds too wonderful to be true, that's because it's a lie. Whatever you do, don't open your wallet to a stranger, especially the ones whispering sweet nothings into your computer.<br /><br />And those aren't the only online dating scams.<br /><br />One middle-aged Indian gent I dined with during my dating escapades told me about the "gorgeous young blonde" of vaguely Eastern European origin who seductively chatted him up online before conning him into returning her call on an expensive "sexual services" number.<br /><br />He was too embarrassed to hang up and by the time he ended it, half an hour later, he'd added $70 to his phone bill.<br /><br />The poor mug had never asked himself why a sexy pouting 25-year-old would throw herself at a fifty-something divorcee.<br /><br /><b>Rule #3: Beware of profile photos.</b><br />Mind you, he hadn't been entirely honest himself. His online photo showed a younger, better looking man than the ropey, dentally challenged individual sitting opposite me in the restaurant.<br /><br />It is common for dating site users to edit themselves in some way. Some purport to be single, while having a hapless spouse at home. These are usually the candidates without a profile photo. Never respond to contact from the 'faceless'.<br /><br /><b>Rule #4: Don't use sites for older people.</b><br />There are thousands of dating sites. It can be overwhelming, and tricky to choose the right one. My first few weeks online were spent in trial and error. To begin with I used a dating site designed for principally for seniors, but I would advise against this.<br /><br />Think about it. It attracts the sort of people who only feel safe among their own age group. Don't cut yourself off from the young and their culture, as they help to keep you young too.<br /><br />Bigger, mainstream, all-generations sites tend to be less staid and a bit more funky. Match.com and eHarmony are among the most popular, and allow you to cast a wide net.<br /><br />You will meet both people who want a proper relationship and those merely in search of fun and games. Other users, irritatingly, don't seem to know what they want; they just like being in the playground.<br /><br />Remember that like any other business, dating sites want your money, and they have been known to employ tricks to encourage you to sign up, such as using fake profiles of potential partners who "want to contact you".<br /><br /><b>Rule #5: Try dating apps.</b><br />OK, it's not really a rule, but another option is the dating app for your smartphone, which matches you with people in your geographical area, if you have both registered a mutual attraction. I spent a wild week or two on Tinder, meeting younger men. What good fun.<br /><br />But Tinder isn't for everybody. If you are over 50 and looking for something a bit more, um, traditional, there is a new app for you, called Stitch. It's being trialled at the moment in the US and Australia.<br /><br />As with Tinder, only people who like the look and sound of each other will be able to make contact. But the site is meant to be as much about finding someone for friendship and companionship, as for romance and rumpy pumpy.<br /><br />Despite its frequent frustrations and disappointments, I loved my adventurous year of internet dating. I met a staggering array of people, had some good times, and learnt a lot - about myself and others.<br /><br />My 'dangerous dating' was brought to an abrupt end due to an unexpected turn of events and in any case I was beginning to feel it had run its natural course. And since the book was published, I have been contacted by many men asking to meet me - so I don't feel tempted to do any more internet dating.<br /><br />However, online dating is a world of opportunity, courtesy of our wondrous modern technology. Delve in. And good luck.<br /><b><br />Four more tips for online dating</b><br />• Try a few different sites, subscribing for the minimum period on each (usually a month) until you find the right one.<br /><br />• Don't provide intimate details about yourself until you feel comfortable with the person you are dealing with.<br /><br />• Never give money to anyone for anything. If you are a woman, at most offer to split the cost of drinks or a meal.<br /><br />• Be friendly but on your guard. Enter a dating site as you would walk through a slightly sketchy part of town: looking over your shoulder and holding on to your valuables.<br />
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-74710021275459596322014-10-23T04:02:00.000-07:002014-10-23T04:02:19.064-07:00Know the kind of a flirt you are dealing withWritten by Reeza Noorani<br />
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It's official now and there's research to prove it too -men and women can be divided into categories based on the way they flirt! Sure, people do have flirt detectors, but if you come across one, here's how you can tell what kind of a person you're up against. And while there is no `one size fits all' to flirting, there is no harm in knowing what you're dealing with...<br />
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<br /><br /><b>THE TRADITIONAL FLIRT</b><br />An approach that is common to most guys who aren't that out going, this guy will not flirt outside of a traditional environment.<br />
Almost a conservative, he will be cautious and polite when flirting.<br />
These are not people who will artfully crack you up in the supermarket queue, or randomly initi ate a conversation that takes interesting turns.<br /><br />They would instead choose to make meaning ful conversation. Actress Ragini Khanna says that such men interest her. "I hate empty talk. For me, conversation and intel lect are right up there.<br /><br />Also, I can always say if someone is being sincere or not. It's refreshing to meet someone genuine like that."<br /><br />Women who are tradi tional flirts will almost always expect men to make the first move, and will take a more passive yet assertive role, in flirt ing. Also, if a woman who is a traditional flirt knows you from before, you have a better chance of bagging a date, since she would prefer to sit back and wait to be wooed.<br /><br /><i>OUTCOME</i><br />Traditional flirting could lead to a serious and meaningful relationship if you're ready for it.<br /><br /><b>THE SINCERE FLIRT</b><br />This kind of a guy would want to be introduced to you rather than go out and make first contact. It's mostly the case when introverts try to flirt. The downside of this is that the woman might not always realise that the guy is flirting with her. Says Ragini, "There are so many times when I don't even know the guy is flirting with me.My friends tell me later that they felt he was!" However, Anubhav, who often speaks with women in the course of his work as a breakup counsellor, says these kind of flirts would play a waiting game and rely on strong emotional connections, rather than risk making a move, which might get boring if the woman is not too interested. For instance, the girl you just met might not be interested in knowing about how exactly your last relationship failed or what your gym routine is. Women on the other hand, develop a more intimate connection if they take this approach.So, if there's lots of personal information being disclosed by a woman, you know that she's the sincere kind and that she's interested.<br /><br /><i>OUTCOME</i><br />A healthy relationship could come out of it, only if you both started on the right note and didn't meet on a dating site.<br /><br /><b>THE PLAYFUL FLIRT</b><br />You know the guy who lures you into a conversation so easily that it is often tough to remember just how you got into it, but know that you're having a really good time? Dating expert Ankit Anubhav says these kind of flirts usually have a good success rate. However, women shouldn't look at anything long-term with them. "These guys are more honest in their approach, since their casualness doesn't hide their intent at all."<br /><br /><i>OUTCOME</i><br />Expect a short-term relationship, fun date nights and a lot of casual conversation. But long-term prospects might be tricky .<br /><br /><b>THE PHYSICAL FLIRT</b><br />As the name suggests, there is a lot of physical intimacy with this kind of guy It's a lot of non-verbal communication where .the guy touches your knee of your hand lightly to make a point. While there is a fine line between being physical while flirting, the ones who are good at it can develop a great intimacy , and the ones who aren't so subtle, could easily put a woman off. Women too, are great with physical flirting. So, if you catch her making eye contact more than a couple of times, it's mostly on. Also, gestures like a tilting of the head or laughing when the joke's not funny , are signs that she's physically flirting.<br /><br /><i>OUTCOME</i><br />There is often great intimacy in such relationships, even though they might not last.<br />
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<a href="http://www.karaslinks.com/main.html" target="_blank">Kara’s Porn for Women:</a> No girl-on-girl pics here. One of the few sites targeted to heterosexual women, it has a small collection of stories, primarily involving consensual, one-on-one intercourse and oral sex.<br />
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<a href="http://www.afterdark-online.com/" target="_blank">After Dark Online</a> : Described as the "source for COOL sexy romance and HOT erotic stories", this is another great place for tales guaranteed to give you a good tingle.<br />
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<a href="http://www.theeroticwoman.com/" target="_blank">The Erotic Woman:</a> This is the perfect spot for both men and women. Yay for inclusivity!<br />
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<a href="http://www.literotica.com/stories/index.php" target="_blank">Literotica:</a> Stories on Literotica must be accepted for publication (ie, no self-uploading), and, in addition to 'How to' articles for authors, they have volunteer editors who will read and edit a story before it's submitted. This means the quality of material is (largely) better, and while the design isn't exactly cutting edge, it's easy to navigate.<br />
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-86620606987176610092014-10-23T03:21:00.000-07:002014-10-23T03:21:25.938-07:00Contraception myths: The withdrawal method, the 'morning after' pill and period sexWritten by Natika H Halil <br />
A story recently hit the headlines of a woman in Colombia using a potato as a method of contraception - which went badly wrong. According to Colombia Reports, she began to feel abdominal pain as roots were growing on the potato after two weeks, and doctors had to remove the object. She reportedly said her mother had advised her to try the contraception method.<br />
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At sexual health charity FPA we’ve never come across anyone using vegetables as contraception, but whether this story actually happened or not, we do know that people of all ages are relying on myths and misinformation to prevent pregnancy instead of finding a contraceptive method to suit them.<br />
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<b>MYTH: If your partner withdraws before he ejaculates you won’t get pregnant</b><br />
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There’s been a lot in the news recently about the so-called withdrawal method. But having a partner pull out before he comes is NOT a method of contraception and leaves women at risk of pregnancy. This is because it’s still possible for a sexually excited man to release fluid from his penis even without having an orgasm. This is known as pre-ejaculation fluid or pre-cum and, as it has sperm in it, it can lead to pregnancy.<br />
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<b>MYTH: The only contraception choices are condoms or the pill</b><br /><br />Although these two methods are still the most well know there are actually 15 methods of contraception available in the UK, all free through the NHS. Sadly, there are still only two choices for men (the male condom and sterilisation), although research into both the male pill and male contraceptive injection is ongoing. Women have a choice of 13 methods, including four methods of long-acting reversible contraception (LARC) which they don’t need to remember to take or use every day or every time they have sex.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: You can’t get pregnant if you do it standing up</b><br /><br />We still hear this one a lot. Sperm are very strong swimmers and gravity alone is not going to stop them reaching and trying to fertilise an egg! If you don’t use contraception then it’s possible for a woman to get pregnant whatever position you were having sex in.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: You can’t get pregnant if you have sex during your period</b><br /><br />Many women think that they’re only fertile for a few days each month, and so they believe they can’t get pregnant during their period and throughout most of their menstrual cycle. There are two factors that make this a myth. Firstly, many women have irregular menstrual cycles so it can be very hard to know for sure ovulation (when an egg is released) has taken place. Secondly, sperm can actually live in the body for up to 7 days so they can be hanging around ready and waiting to fertilise an egg.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: You can’t get pregnant if it’s the first time you have sex</b><br /><br />This persistent myth is still out there and leading to unplanned pregnancies. If egg meets sperm then it’s possible to get pregnant, whether it’s the first, tenth or thousandth time you’ve had sex.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: Two condoms are safer than one</b><br /><br />Although you might think that an extra layer will offer you extra protection, this isn’t true, and using two condoms actually increases the risk of them splitting or breaking. A male condom used correctly is 98% effective at preventing pregnancy and a female condoms used correctly is 95% effective.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: You can’t get pregnant if you go to the loo or douche straight after sex</b><br /><br />Going to the loo or douching (washing the inner and outer female genitals) won’t help to prevent a pregnancy. Again, this is down to sperm being fantastic swimmers. By the time a woman has got to the loo, or started to have a wash, the sperm are already well on their way and this isn’t going to stop them.<br /><br /><b>MYTH: It’s OK to re-use a condom if you haven’t got a new one</b><br /><br />This isn’t safe – condoms (both male and female) are designed to be used once only, so don’t attempt to wash them out and use them again.<br />
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-17265417516441570642014-10-23T03:13:00.000-07:002014-10-23T03:13:07.382-07:00Now lets talk about Tinder and online datingWritten by Mel Macdonald <br />
Now there are many different platforms with online dating from dating agencies, to online matchmaking to apps.<br />
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Recently there was an article about a girl who met a man via Tinder and was raped and another that died after falling off a balcony. Its amazing how it has put Tinder in a bad light however, I am here to tell you that after being on many online sites and apps I can honestly say, as a woman, Tinder is the safest method of free dating.<br />
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Over the last 12 months I have perused my fair share of
dating sites and apps. Each and everyone of them has a slight difference,
whether that be the 500 questions of eHarmony to determine your best suitor, to
the apps that ask you nothing at all like Tinder. But my last 12hrs on dating
app called SKOUT has taken the cake for complication, voyeurism and just plain
ridiculousness!</div>
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I really felt like I was a pro at these sites. I now had the
skills to know how to determine fake profiles, widdle out the creeps and
determine who was really interested in just a hook-up or wanting a little more,
till yesterday.</div>
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I mean lets be honest, dating sites really are nicknamed
hook-up sites, but SKOUT takes online connections to a whole new level. I
downloaded the app and finally worked out how to upload some images after
scratching my head a little. This app is quite diverse in comparison to the
simplicity of Tinder where all you do is swipe left or right.</div>
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This app allows you to peruse people’s profiles but has a ‘point
system’ to access additional pictures that people have loaded above the initial
five images. You can ‘buzz’, ‘favourite’, or send a ‘wink’. The Buzz is feed
that looks like your Facebook homepage where people basically chat or upload
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Gaining points allows you to view those that either ‘favourite’
or viewed your profile, access extra pictures in the background of people’s
profiles, or send a wink bomb or ‘gift’ (which are a bunch of icons which seem
stupid if you have emoji on your phone). Continual advertisements are played
and by watching these you can gain these points.</div>
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It took me hours to get around the complicated app to work
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While doing this I received nearly 200 hits with ‘winks’ and
messages clogging up my phone. Quite frankly my phone was buzzing so much with
messages I could have used it as my own personal vibrator!</div>
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I chose a few people to chat to and see what kind of guys
were on here and holy cow did I get a run for my money. One dark skinned guy in
particular who was extremely attractive started off the conversation and within
a few questions we determined he was looking for a ‘f*ck buddy’ and that I was
looking for someone who ‘didn’t want to marry me and have my babies’. </div>
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I queried why he only had 1 image on his profile and was
promptly sent 3 really nice above board images then we exchanged a few more. He
looked at mine and could see that a few were professional so he asked for a
selfie to prove I was real. Ok then. Then it was the typical “do you live
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When I asked what was wrong with his place he said he had a flatmate and asked
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Now here is where it got interesting. Next came a picture of
his flatmate then a picture of his c*ck! Woah!! Who is this guy? This is going
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A few hours later I had woken up as I was feeling ill and
decided to peruse the long list of messages when he came online again trying to
hook-up. Its 2am now and I explained I was not feeling well and in no mood for
sex when the continued rejection from me prompted him to show me how he is
sharing my images with his mates who are messaging me (including his flatmate)
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This silently disgusted me so I thought two can play this
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was it! These guys were convinced I was a Gay Guy hiding behind a Woman’s Profile!
Wow!! So before I know it his flatmate has plastered on the ‘buzz feed’ that I
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Luckily for me I have thick skin and any images I send I
have no issue who sees them or I wouldn’t send them. So boys, all I can say is
thanks for the eye opener and enjoy the images for your spank bank, as not all
women want to be part of a porn movie scenario. Especially the ones you rudely
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-44230731051655457572014-10-23T03:00:00.000-07:002014-10-23T03:00:25.418-07:005 Tips For Improving Your Sex LifeGetting two people on the same page about sex isn’t easy. But sexual relationships, like all relationships, need to be negotiated and worked at — which is what you can start doing with these tips from Dr. Phil.<br />
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<br /><br /><b>1. Maintain a good overall relationship. </b><br />If one of you feels unsupported or unappreciated, chances are you won’t be rolling in the hay very often. If you want a good sexual relationship, it needs to be just one piece of a good overall relationship.<br /><br /><b>2. Examine your relationship. </b><br />Sex involves vulnerability. It is an act that can flow freely only with mental, emotional and physical trust. If you are having sexual frustrations, examine the relationship at large. Are you creating an environment of giving, receiving, trust and relaxation? If not, changing those dynamics will be essential before your sex life can change.<br />
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<b>4. Be a good partner. </b><br />It is illogical for you to ignore your significant other in the morning, bark at him/her during the day, argue in the evening, and then fall into his/her arms for a fanciful sexual adventure at night. Insensitivity, inattention and hostility make sexual intimacy unnatural. If you want a rhythmic pattern of sexual intimacy, then create a relational pattern that reflects the same intimate emotions.<br /><br /><b>5. Make sex a priority.</b><br />If everything with your partner seems to be flowing consistently, problems with sexual relations may persist for different reasons. There are times when one or both partners become distracted and allow sexual interaction to slide down the priority scale. These couples have allowed a number of competing activities and circumstances to rob them of this very special, intimate exchange. You must consciously commit to putting sex back in your life.<br />
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Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-59694096102170649972014-10-23T02:55:00.000-07:002014-10-23T02:55:46.837-07:00Why Do Women Think They Are Fat When They Are Not?Written by Mel Macdonald<br />
One of the topics I like to talk about is the one topic that all women hate, Their Bodies!<br />
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We as women are always soo paranoid about every nook and cranny on our bodeies and believe that everyone, especially men, is looking at them and thinking "what a fat woman". Thats why women like to have the lights off when being intimate with a man <br />
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Let me fill you in with a little secret ladies,<br />
<b>Men don't give a sh*t what you look like, they are just happy they are allowed to touch you! </b><br />
This is words straight from men's mouths. Thats right, if you want to turn a guy and impress him, LEAVE THE LIGHTS ON!<br />
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So the big question is, why do we look at ourselves like this?<br />
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I have popped a few video's here to watch, ponder, and reconsider what we THINK we are seeing in the mirror. The amazing thing is it doesn't matter if you're a size 6 or 22 all women act the same and TODAY is the day we need to STOP and start loving our bodies.<br />
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<br />Love and Indulgencehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05020297097620929933noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3766860566723535917.post-34704318562730260592014-10-22T17:23:00.000-07:002014-10-22T17:23:17.088-07:00Do people really have sex in airports?What do you do while waiting for your flight? A new survey suggests one in 10 of us have had an 'amorous encounter' to pass the time. By Jolyon Attwooll<br />
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<br />“The Rise of the 'Airport Club'”, it said. “1 in 10 Britons Has Had a Sexual Encounter in an Airport”</div>
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2,521 people had apparently replied to this survey. Of them, “nine per cent... admitted that they’d had a sexual encounter while in an airport before."</div>
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<br />“The most popular place in which people joined the ‘airport club’ in such a way was ‘airport toilets’ (76 per cent), followed by ‘storage area/room’ (21 per cent).</div>
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<br />Slightly more sensibly, there were statistics on people's favourite activities while waiting at airports. Eating and drinking was the most popular (79 per cent), followed by reading (52 per cent), and duty free shopping (30 per cent).</div>
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<br />"In order to compare how common sex in an airport was to those who had joined the ‘mile-high club’, all respondents were also asked if they’d ever had a sexual encounter on an aircraft, to which only 4 per cent admitted that they had. 31 per cent of these had been caught in the act."</div>
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“Anyone who claimed they’d had sex in an airport was asked why they had done so, to which 32 per cent said they were ‘in the holiday spirit’ and 27 per cent said that they wanted the ‘thrill’ of not knowing if they’d get caught.”</div>
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<br />Ah, that famous holiday spirit that encourages people to take their clothes off in public places? A quick straw poll of our writers found no one who had ever found sufficient “spirit” to do the same.<br />So either we’re bucking the average, some of us aren’t being honest, or the survey’s results should be approached with, let’s say, caution.</div>
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Forget about ripped abs, bulging biceps, and a flat stomach, as well as a fat bank account, friends in high places, and your own private jet. These six personality traits power the pull of magnetic attraction. </h4>
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It’s nearing the end of the day and the weekend’s approaching. Are you getting ready to go home to your lover and making fun weekend plans? Or are you reading advice articles and wondering why, despite your hours at the gym and in those continuing ed classes, that special someone you desire so dearly to date—and perhaps move in with or marry—never seems to materialize? Some people choose a single life, and embracing solitude doesn’t mean staying solitary or feeling unfulfilled. But for those who are seeking—and not finding—the perfect partner of your dreams, the list below offers some surprises on what people truly find irresistible.<br />
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<b>1. Consistency.</b> Myth: Consistent people are dull and boring; they lack spontaneity and a sense of adventure. Consistency may be the hobgoblin of small minds, but it is the heart of successful relationships. Being consistent doesn’t rule out “Surprising your mate with an unexpected [whatever the magazine recommends].” You can be consistently surprising, consistently out of the box, consistently different. What being consistent does mean is showing up when you say you will. It means working steadily at projects until you finish. It means having values and principles and sticking to them, especially when they’re challenged. And it means maintaining healthy emotional and physical life habits. Consistent people know that being present in the same way every day beats the occasional grand gesture hands down every time. <b>Consistency is … tempting. </b><br />
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<b>2. Balance.</b> Myth: All passionate lovers are emotionally unstable basket cases. Being balanced doesn’t mean you don’t possess strong passions—in the conference room or the bedroom—or that you dutifully list the pros and cons before your every move. Being balanced means you have a center and can navigate rough waters and roll with the surges. It means you don’t easily get upset or thrown off your game. It means you can understand and accept a person’s feelings while respectfully disagreeing. And it means you don’t internalize the anxiety of the people around you. Balanced people have their own thermometer that remains at body temperature when things around them start to bubble and boil. <b>Balance is … hot. </b><br />
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<b>3. Openness.</b> Myth: Open people lack conviction and don’t know what they want. Being open doesn’t mean being willing to do anything or answering every question with, “whatever, you choose.” Being open means being open-minded, open to new experiences and experiments. Being open means listening before you decide or judge. Being open means joining your partner in an unpleasant emotion—frustration, disappointment, sadness—even if it is not your own and even if you are the cause. Being open also means never, ever being dismissive and always being open to discussion. Being open means being open-eyed and aware of your own issues. And being open means being generous and acting with an open heart and open hands. <b>Openness is … alluring. </b><br />
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<b>4. Impulse control.</b> Myth: Impulsive people are the only ones who are free be themselves, generate excitement, and pursue their dreams. Having impulse control doesn’t mean suppressing your true nature, measuring out your life with coffee spoons, or never taking a risk or blowing the budget on something big. Having impulse control means not behaving in a self-destructive manner. It means not gossiping or indulging negativity. It means putting your best interest ahead of your self-interest—most of the time—and leaning towards your better nature. It means holding back even when you’re enraged and holding your tongue as well. It means not thinking from below the waist. And it means responding instead of reacting. <b>Impulse control is … seductive. </b><br />
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<b>5. Tenderness.</b> Myth: Tender people are weak and oversensitive. Tenderness is not the opposite of strength but the foundation of strength, and sensitivity is a strong quality. Being tender means baring your heart, exposing your soft parts with a confident vulnerability. It means acting gently and with compassion, a stance that requires courage. It means humbly acknowledging your own frailty as you lend support to others, knowing they will lean on you and make you bend. It means not just drying tears and dusting someone off but affirming that it’s OK to cry. It means when someone is pushed and stumbles, you shout “man down” instead of “man up.” It means foreplay is an act in itself. <b>Tenderness is … arousing. </b><br />
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<b>6. Boundaries. </b>Myth: Boundaries are those silly things you let go of when you fall in love. Boundaries are absolutely the most important thing you can bring to and maintain in every type of relationship and especially in intimate ones. Having boundaries eliminates confusion and lets you be clear when you communicate. Having boundaries means you don’t secretly resent what you allow. Having boundaries means you have self-respect, without which you’re not capable of respecting your partner. Having boundaries means you always know where you stand with each other and what happens if you cross the line. Having boundaries means understanding that healthy relationships are based on accommodation, not sacrifice. <b>Having boundaries is … sexy. </b><br />
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