WORLD'S NO#1 COUPLE'S TOY CREATES LIMITED EDITION

NOW We-Vibe has brought out a SPECIAL LIMITED EDITION We-Vibe 4 couples toy not only with a hand-held remote & App but for only an extra $10 from the original price they are letting you have a satin white blindfold to help kick it up a notch making this a 'sensation' experience and adding a rechargeable Tango Bullet valued at $100 retail!

For those in the know, We-Vibe has won the Couple's No#1 Adult Toy for years!

SPECIAL EDITION WE-VIBE PLEASURE BOX

Its innovation has brought with it the APP that allows couples to start foreplay before they are face to face!

Relationships have been:
RE-ENERGISED with the introduction of a COUPLE'S toy
SPICED UP using the different modes and vibration patterns
BROUGHT CLOSER TOGETHER removing the long distance factor with the use of the APP
RE-CONNECTED when you can be stimulated TOGETHER

So for those needing to:
* Upgrade
* Switch from singular person toys
* Want to Spice it up
* Need to connect with their partner
* Need to close the distance between you and your travelling partner
* Have a long Distance Relationship (great to use over phone or with Skype)
* Want to try something new

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The Very Best Online Erotica … For Free!

You over the Fifty Shades of Grey yet or just thought it was a bad read?

Well it did hit the spot for its target market, smack bang in the loins!
However some us want either better written literature or more steamy. So here is a list of erotica that is easily accessible for you today and its free found by Kristen Droesch.

Kara’s Porn for Women: No girl-on-girl pics here. One of the few sites targeted to heterosexual women, it has a small collection of stories, primarily involving consensual, one-on-one intercourse and oral sex.

Libida: is all about promoting healthy sexuality, and has a special section devoted just to free erotica. Sweet!

 Erotic Pages of Romance: In the mood for something saucy, romantic and historical? This is the site for you.

After Dark Online : Described as the "source for COOL sexy romance and HOT erotic stories", this is another great place for tales guaranteed to give you a good tingle.

The Erotic Woman: This is the perfect spot for both men and women. Yay for inclusivity!

Nifty: This site caters to lesbians, bisexuals, transgendered people, and even gay men. This ad-free, not-for-profit site doesn't collect your personal information or use "cookies," so browse away discreetly at their wide array of saucy tales. You can even browse by author!

Alt.Sex.Stories Text Repository: From "Damsels in Distress" to "Erotic Mind Control", anything goes at one of the oldest and largest collections of sex stories on the web. It's ad-free, so you won't get 45 browser windows full of porn popping up, but it's also un-moderated, which means anyone can post anything they want. WARNING: Because content is un-moderated and uncensored, some of it is extremely subversive. The faint of heart should browse elsewhere.

Caffieri: This site specializes in "erotic super shorts", perfect for a quick read.

Literotica: Stories on Literotica must be accepted for publication (ie, no self-uploading), and, in addition to 'How to' articles for authors, they have volunteer editors who will read and edit a story before it's submitted. This means the quality of material is (largely) better, and while the design isn't exactly cutting edge, it's easy to navigate.

Best Free Sex Stories: This site has a large collection of stories with a range themes and an intuitive interface, so you can quickly click on what you're looking for, whether it's erotic poetry or anal sex stories.

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VIRTUAL SEX A NEW REALITY WITH THE WE-VIBE APP

FELLA's LISTEN UP

We can now start our intimacy from ANYWHERE in the world!

Can you believe it?

Thats right, We-Vibe the Leading Couples Manufacturer globally has released its new high tech invention the We-Vibe 4 APP.

This app allows somewhere to be anywhere on the globe and as long as you have internet access you can sync the app to your partners couples vibrator!

Now you know how I have always talked about its a 2 minute warm-up for men and a 20 minute warm-up for women?

Well this app allows you to get her all ready for you on your commute home!

Or how about for those who live a distance away or travelling?

You can give her all those sensations without even being in the room. 

Brings Skype sex to a whole new level!

Or how about the cheeky ones who want to cheat without cheating?

Taking fantasies to a whole new level you could be with a lover using the We-Vibe and have another person anywhere on the globe controlling the vibrations!

Thats bringing the word 'Three-some' to a whole new level.

We are taking pre-orders for late August delivery. DON'T MISS OUT!

We envisage the first shipment to be sold before its hit the Australian shores.

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The Ultimate Professionals dating App LinkedUp

The dating world is so hard these days when you are a professional. Work tends to get in the way and many of us are over clubs and bars. But what would you say if there were a dating app strictly for professionals?

Well from me I say yippee and welcome!

LinkedIn has taken a note from the simplicity of Tinder and created a new dating app that targets professionals called LinkedUp.

Instead of using your Facebook profile like Tinder, LinkedUp uses your LinkedIn profile. This gives you the opportunity to connect through peoples social network with other professionals.

However, there seems to be some interesting opinions floating around so far about this app. One written by Rebecca Greenfield in a recent article said, “It sounds like a terrible way to find dates—not to mention a potential HR nightmare” and quotes it is a “mash up of Tinder meets LinkedIn for the dating APP of your nightmares”.

Hmmm, I can’t say she sounded impressed and I can’t say I agree with Rebecca’s sentiments.

I mean, unless you’ve been hiding under a rock the last few years, as soon as you apply for a job the recruiters are scanning social media to learn more about you prior to offering you an interview. What’s the difference between that and dating?

I know I want to check someone out first and I can tell you when someone is checking me out I prefer him or her to see the professional scrubbed version of me on LinkedIn then the casual Facebook profile.

I am a busy professional and at 40 years old I decided it was time for a career and life change. Opening an eCommerce adult store selling ‘Intimate Lifestyle Products’ to women, this new business was designed to help women my age to have a more fulfilling sexual relationship (while ironically not having one myself at the time). Go figure!

My last relationship was for 11yrs and after a lengthy hiatus it was time to get the courage to poke my head up and get back into the dating scene that quite frankly scared the shit out of me.

After prior testing of other dating sites such as Zoosk and eHarmony and bombing, I heard about Tinder and thought I would give it a go. It was not only my new ‘Social Experiment’ to blog about and test some dating theories; it was a great way to help me get back on the dating scene after nearly 3yrs! (Wow time flies).

Now, after spending nearly the last year testing online dating and relationship theories, helping people with their online profiles and, being a guest speaker at workshops working with women, couples and singles, I now feel I can comment on this topic comfortably.

I love this concept of a professionals dating app.

ONLINE PROFILE MATCHING

Different dating sites and apps cater for different people. Some expect you to give no info like Tinder, and some want a lot of information nearly down to the underwear your wearing such as eHarmony.

The comprehensive ones like eHarmony are focused on personality profile matching.  I believe they are really only directed at those who have tried everything else to find a suitable partner (or those who are extremely shy and introverted) and who’s focus is to get married and settle down to have a family.

In light of this, I wasn’t keen on eHarmony as I was not interested in getting married all over again just getting back on the horse!

I also found that the algorithms they use try to match you with someone just like you, which in my opinion is boring. I want someone to add to my life not to have the same likes/dislikes and agree with everything I say and do. In addition, I also believe that no matter what anyone says, that first impression of what someone aesthetically looks like is vital in the world of attraction and most profiles, unless paid for, have nil images on these sites.

Heads up people, if you aren’t attracted to the person your with it doesn’t get any better in the years to come. I had a marriage based on attraction and lust that lasted 11 years (and I am still attracted to him today). We lasted longer then the average of most relationships as per the ABS statistics of a median length of 8.8 years in 2010, so I rest my case on the attraction topic.

ONLINE DATING

Zoosk online dating, and many like it, allows you to supply as much or little as you want about yourself.

The catch with all these dating sites is if someone likes you, regardless of how you feel, they can send you a message or love icon. However, with many of these free sites, to read these messages or to see a person’s picture, you actually have to pay a membership fee, which is a little cheeky.

DATING APP's

Tinder changed all that. Completely free with an easy setup using your Facebook account, it not only brought in an element of trust, as you knew they were more then likely a real person, but you could connect via shared friends and interests. Until both parties swiped right and said they both liked each other NO form of contact was possible.

For a single woman this made me feel safer. If after contact you felt uncomfortable with the person you could instantly block contact.

Now LinkedIn has gone and made their own online dating app for professionals. As a professional myself I say hallelujah!

The founder, Max Fisher points out in his interview with The Guardian,  "The user has sense, in terms of comfort and understanding, of: where is that person from? What do they do? Where did they go to school? Which are some of the most important questions in dating rapport between two people in terms of the first interaction." This makes perfect sense to me.

I researched professional dating sites when I was doing this ‘Social Experiment’ and talked to people in my industry to learn more about what was out there. I mean, I was running blind, as I had been out of the dating scene for a bloody long time. Here is what else I found.

MATCH MAKING FOR PROFESSIONALS

Match Making companies for Professionals like Elite Productions charge an annual fee of $5K. They are great in theory but for my money I didn’t like the fact that based on a one-on-one interview with one of their consultants they chose the guy for me and put us in contact. I don’t get to see any profile pictures of the fella I would go on a date with. Not a fan of blind dates and feeling like I was back on the non-paid membership of eHarmony, I decided against this avenue.

Then in a meeting of a mutual friend I was told about another really high-end top shelf professional dating service who’s fee is $25K. Holy wow! The funny part about this is finding out that the successful women using these services wanted to be matched with a successful ‘suit’. This is a white-collar man with a great job and finances to match.

Those men however, had no interest in their matching counterparts as they actually wanting a younger hot handbag to stroke their ego (which professional women don’t tend to be good at). The struggle this agency had was convincing these professional, independent women that the ‘Tradies’ were perfect men for them.

Women have forgotten how things have changed over time and these blue-collar workers are now in a better financial position then half these white collars. Work fewer hours and dote on their women. Apparently it takes months of convincing but when these women finally listen they are delighted with their Kinder Surprise.

So why are people thinking this new app LinkedUp is a horrible way to find dates?

My take is this is a smart way to connect.

1. MUTUAL FRIEND CONNECTION

Firstly, most couples that connect and have successful relationships meet through mutual friends. Yes, there are many that meet online but the odds are still against them. So why is this any different when you are meeting through a mutual social network?

Think about it, if your not looking for a bootie call but for a relationship, people seeing your pictures and your profile first help them to make better decisions on who to connect with. It’s a great idea.

It cuts through the bullshit and helps you to better determine if you are sexually attracted to them, whether you have anything in common and that they are a ‘real’ person not a scam.

ROMANCE SCAMS

The scams are the hot topic of the week thanks to the Chrissie and Jane report ‘Private Investigator Files’ on radio’s 101.1 FM. Apparently scam dating is a silent epidemic and again, as a single woman my safety of knowing how to track someone down if the shit hits the fan is important to me (and yes, I have come across some dodgy guys during this experiment).

2. WIN WIN

Secondly, it is a smart business move and revenue earner by LinkedIn as this app is only available to those on the ‘Premium’ membership. So they make money indirectly for you using their app and you benefit by what the ‘Premium’ membership offers you on your profile. It’s a win/win!

3. LOW COST

Thirdly, LinkedUp has a much lower cost to meet other professionals then the $5-25K I mentioned earlier.

So if you’re a professional businesswoman who doesn’t have the time to go out and meet guys or just isn’t interested in the bar and club scene anymore, this app is for you.

            

When You Want It More Then He Does

Hey readers, 

Found this great article and wanted to share with you all.

On a personal note, I have been in this position a few times. I found that my age increased my libido and their work, stress, mind or depression decreased theirs. I believe this is a common problem with many of us so please take in the wise words below to better understand.

I remember too well discovering the utter pleasure of having sex with one particular partner (who will remain unnamed). The first few times weren't great, but once I felt comfortable and confident, there was no stopping me. I couldn't get enough.

But whereas I was getting more and more excited about all the sexy things he could do to me and I could do to him — I felt like a hormonal teenager because all I could think about was having sex with him — it soon became clear that he didn't want it as much as I did.

Being sexually rejected on an almost daily basis was hard to take.

Not only did he make me feel unattractive, but he also made me feel like I was a nymphomaniac. That relationship only lasted for eleven months in total. In hindsight, I wish I had known how to better deal with my feelings of rejection.

The sexual stereotype that men have stronger libidos has left women such as myself feeling rejected and hurt, not to mention sexually frustrated.

But gender researcher Professor Hugo Schwyzer points out it's important to distinguish feelings of rejection from feelings of sexual frustration.

"While it's undeniably upsetting to be the one who 'wants it more', how much of the upset is tied to feeling 'like a freak' because women aren't supposed to have the higher libido?".

"Rejection never feels good, just as having to reject isn't much fun either. But clearly, to be a young woman with a consistently higher sexual desire than one's male partner is always going to be especially painful because of the way in which it contradicts all of our cultural programming. The one comfort that folks in my position can offer — and I do offer it repeatedly — is to remind those who are confused and hurting that this is not nearly as unusual as they think." In fact, it was recently proven that women's sexual desire is just as strong and ravenous as men's — proving once and for all that the belief that men want more sex than women is just a myth, and that our expectations of how women are in bed have been shaped by cultural beliefs.

So what can you do if you want it more than he does? Is having mismatched libidos a deal breaker in a relationship?

If you truly love your partner, but fear your mismatched libidos are a problem, here are a few questions you should ask yourself:

•Why don't you masturbate? Having your own sex life can not only improve your general health and well-being, but also the state of your relationship. Think sexy thoughts about your partner while self-pleasuring if it helps making you feel closer to your partner. For beginners, we recommend using a toy like Nalone Roma — it's sleek, discrete and will pinpoint all of the vibrations to your clitoris, giving you sensational C-spot orgasms. Can be used on your own or even later with a partner. If you're looking for something even more earth shattering, you might like to try The Kissing Swan by Swan for dual C-spot and G-spot stimulation.

•Do you really want sex? Or is it intimacy, affection and maybe just confirmation that he desires you that you're really after? Learn to differentiate between sex and affection. A cuddle on the coach or an intimate massage session can satisfy your immediate hunger if it's really intimacy you want.

However, if you are really concerned about your mismatched libidos, talking to a relationship or sex therapist could be a good idea.

For me? Well, I'm happy to announce that I'm in a sexually very satisfactory relationship today, and my man wants it just as much as I do. Which is a lot — but we both love it!

Enjoy yourself.

Miss M

www.loveandindulgence.com.au

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Healthy Meals for More Mojo: Foods that Naturally Increase Libido

For thousands of years, people have searched for edible items to guarantee peak sexual performance and pleasure. Ancient Romans swore by hippo snouts, while even now, tiger penis is thought to be a libido booster in China. 
Luckily for you (and the hippos and the tigers), there are healthier and more palatable edibles that give you longer-lasting results than quick-fix aphrodisiacs. Include some of the following foods to reap the rewards of more romantic romps!

Granola Gets the Juices Flowing: When it comes to sex, blood circulation isn’t just important for men. Between the clitoris and the tissue surrounding the vulva, erectile response is also beneficial for a woman’s sexual experience.

For better blood flow, eat foods like granola, chickpeas, cashews, peanuts, walnuts and root vegetables. They’re all rich in L-Arginine, which improves sexual function by boosting circulation, and thus erectile response.

A Rule of Thumb (and Heart): Whatever is good for your heart is good for your sexual functions. We avoid saturated fats because they clog arteries, and for the reasons stated above, diminished circulation impedes sexual performance and pleasure.

On the other hand, too little fat can lead to less sexual desire. When fat (the good kind) is processed in the liver, the result is more testosterone (for him) and estrogen (for her). Greater quantities of these hormones dictate the level of your sex drive, and can be achieved by ingesting good fats such as monounsaturated and polyunsaturated. Find both of these healthy fats in salmon, nuts and olive oil for when you need a fried food fix!

Soy: a Girl’s Best Friend: Upping your soy intake has a number of beneficial effects to your sexual experiences. Soy binds oestrogen receptors, which not only helps the vagina to stay lubricated, but also diminishes symptoms of menopause like hot flashes – so pass the tofu!

Guys can also benefit from having a soyfriend, as studies have shown that it keeps the prostate healthy. It is, however, important to mention that this is not for everyone; women with any history of breast cancer should not eat large amounts of soy and other estrogen receptor-binding foods.

Use It, Don’t Lose It: So now that your diet is optimized for more O’s, what do you do with this newfound fitness? Share it of course!

Eating the proper food is only half the battle when it comes to maintaining your healthy sensuality, so be sure to make good use of it with someone special by adding some of these intimate items to your chef’s kit; you and your partner (not to mention the hippos and tigers) will be glad you did!

Tiani 2

This remote-controlled wearable vibrator is perfect for intensifying sensations during lovemaking – just wear it and share it!

ALIA

The unique egg-like shape of our external waterproof vibrator turns up the wow factor of shared intimacy, and also makes for an even better bubble bath

Luna Beads and Luna Beads Mini

When it comes to sensual health, it all comes down to Kegels. Luna Beads and the new Luna Beads Mini are body-safe and effective aides for working out this important muscle set.

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